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Sick of being so shy. this is a big step for me.

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Hi all you all know me as trip, well my name is terry :) i am 27 years old and a DAD of 2 amazing little girls.

The reason for this post is..... well i am shy and i wanted you to know me a bit better.

This is me and my Girls. tinypic.com/r/2i72rk9/6

I was picked on the hole of my school life for being "the little FAT KID"

How things change and bully's wants to be your friends!

So i made sure it would not happen when i got older! tinypic.com/r/zxziw/6

For fun and to chill out to brake free from my anxiety and depression i do graphics work, with photos. This is one of the things i am working on.tinypic.com/r/2zrn9zt/6

I hope this gives you a little more of a view of who i am.

If the links don't work just copy and past them in to you browser :)

Trip

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Trip , you have a lovely , face , its full of kindness , love & personality

There will always be bullys at school , if they dont pick on one thing its another , my son is built like a match stick & got bullied for been thin !!!! he would love some meat on his bones but its about accepting yourself for who you are & learning to love that person , then that starts shining through our personality & that is what attracts people

I have to beautiful daughters , grown up , now they used to go for these really good looking blokes and you no what they treat them like dirt as they have grown into adults they both have OH & you no they are both your size if not bigger , but you no what else , there personalities is what they fell in love with & they as well as me think they are the most handsome men there is ...I say this to let you no , you are a good looking lad , & some sensible young lady will snap you up ...as you get better , your confidence will come & your wonderful personality will follow

Ladies do like well built men you no , no matter what you think ...they dont all want skinny , like some men dont all want skinny ladies ..start believing

You have to beautiful daughters , you are very lucky , focus in on the positives in your life , i see the future will be good for you ;)

Love

whywhy

xxx

PS you have a cheeky smile as well ...throw that the ladies ;)

hi trip, i agree with every thing whywhy has said. i was bullied at school for having red hair and i was so worried that the same thing was going to happen to my daughter as it made my life hell. my daughter was the opposite of me thank god where i would hide away and cry, she stuck up for herself. she made friends with another girl who was being picked on and stood up for her as well. my daughter got picked on for coming from london if you can beleive that, they would say 'you think your hard coz your from london' lol so she showed them how it was done. yes i had a trip to the headmasters office but only the once lol. love your art trip keep up the hard work. xxx

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I think u r a good luking chap, and dont let weight bring u down. Ive alot of friends that r big and theyve got big personalities. Tbh i dont even think ur that big.Theres nuthing wrong with the way u look at all, and once uve got ova ur anxiety and depression and getting more convindence in urself there will be a special lady for you. Ur girls real cuties :-) as for bullies theyve always been around and they always will be. Bullies r just jealous. I got picked on and ended up being really shy and quiet. Im 31 now and guess wat the bullies all want to add u on facebook and speak to u in the street these days. Im not the person i was thou at school i will say wat i think, and i defo wudnt let them bully me these days :-) xxx

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donaf

I think u r a good luking chap, and dont let weight bring u down. Ive alot of friends that r big and theyve got big personalities. Tbh i dont even think ur that big.Theres nuthing wrong with the way u look at all, and once uve got ova ur anxiety and depression and getting more convindence in urself there will be a special lady for you. Ur girls real cuties :-) as for bullies theyve always been around and they always will be. Bullies r just jealous. I got picked on and ended up being really shy and quiet. Im 31 now and guess wat the bullies all want to add u on facebook and speak to u in the street these days. Im not the person i was thou at school i will say wat i think, and i defo wudnt let them bully me these days :-) xxx

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