Is it normal?

[madamdumpling]

Is it normal to think about who will miss you if you died at this moment? I find myself constantly thinking about this.

[Shanm2]

Sometimes i think this way too, maybe it's because i always feel like im not needed or appreciated.

And even if the people didn't miss me, i would sure miss the beautiful sunsets and everything else in between.

Sorry you feel the way you do. But please remember you are worthy of this life, you are enough just as you are

😊

[madamdumpling in reply to Shanm2]

I totally understand what you mean. Sometimes I feel invalidated, unappreciated and under valued and it really sucks.

Good to know that I’m not alone in having these thoughts. I would definitely miss dogs and new adventures.

I hope we get the appreciation we deserve, I’m sure someone will miss us, just gets cloudy sometimes. Hope you are safe and well.

[Shanm2 in reply to madamdumpling]

It's not the best feeling.

But your definitely not alone with this, and i hope some way that helps a little.

I hope for that also, i appreciate your post and reply! I means alot so thank you!

Hope you too, are safe and well! ☺️

[Agora1]

Try turning that thought around madamdumpling. As to who cares enough now? This is when we need to be appreciated, not when we are gone. This is when we need the occasional bouquet of flowers, not when we're gone. The things we've done in life is what we will be remembered for and not so much our passing. xx

[madamdumpling in reply to Agora1]

Im having a difficult time seeing who actually cares and who doesnt. Im trying my best to turn it around, I’m not a huge fan of these thoughts

[Agora1 in reply to madamdumpling]

Of course you don't like those thoughts. Everyone wants to be loved and cared about but since we don't have any control over that, it's about loving ourselves first. xx

[FearIsALiar]

I think this way sometimes as well. Mainly if I’m feeling extremely depressed with suicidal thoughts. I often think this.

Are you experiencing suicidal thoughts?

[madamdumpling in reply to FearIsALiar]

Hi FearIsALiar, yeah I usually have these thoughts when I’m extremely depressed

[FearIsALiar in reply to madamdumpling]

If you ever need someone to talk to you can definitely PM me! I’m here to listen and offer advice if I can!

[foxglove]

Me too!!!