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GAD? Social anxiety? Or Other?

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Hi, I just came across this forum through the NHS website and thought I would post this. I am 21 year old uni student, and I noticed I couldn't deal with stress when I joined uni because I had to keep up with deadlines and do presentstions. I used to tell my family jokingly at the time that I am really stressed, and that I think i have chronic stress or something. But now a couple of years down the line and I am in my last year of uni, my stress symptom has manifested into more that stress. I have told my family and 2 teachers at uni that I think I have GAD. However, what I experience, I haven't seen anyone else talk about that has GAD.

My symptoms/concerns are about going to new places and not knowing how to access the building without someone else there. I want to travel by plane one day, and the thought of going to an airport and it having so many processes before boarding a plane - also not knowing where to go what to do first, scares me and makes me feel anxious and overwhelmed. I have built up courage to take a train for the first time 2 years ago but with the aid of my best friend. I had extreme worry over taking a bus for the first time years ago too, that I kept asking my sister (who takes buses) where to put the money because I couldn't picture it in my head. I also struggle with phone calls, January this year I missed a work placement at a school by 2 days because the days seem to merge together sometimes and go by quickly. I got my mum's phone to call and let them know about me missing and to tell them I would be in the rest of the week. But by the time I was sitting in my bedroom phoning the office, all my courage left me when they picked up, so I cancelled the call saying nothing and cried. Since then, I managed to make a couple of phone calls to sort out my finances and I was able to do it - but that was a month ago and I feel like if I had to make a phone call I'd be right back at the start. I also don't go in to uni for weeks at a time feeling overwhelmed when I wake up and I can't take each day one at a time. I know I have a month before deadlines start coming but I can't even do any work because I am stressed of doing it or not completing it. Which then causes me to not do it. I know this because I am resitting my last year of uni and I don't want a repeat of last year as this is my last chance.

If anyone could share their thoughts on this it would be greatly appreciated.

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Hi Hailshut, I don’t know much about GAD except in a nutshell it’s essentially anxiety about everything and from your message it seems your anxiety is more placed on social situations so from that it appears that you may have social anxiety. I think you should try to see someone about it and see if a specialist will be able to tell you exactly what you have.

Wishing you the best x

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