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most of the people here either have partners or friends , this thing depresses me as i spend most of the time alone . i do have a family but they are not very talkative i do have a few friends but we dont get to meet much . can anyone relate?

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Forestina

Yes. I moved to a completely new area and spend days alone after being so busy working and volunteering I now do so little. Get scared when I think how isolated I have become

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Illboy in reply toForestina

lets be friends

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Forestina in reply toIllboy

Are you in the States? I am here in the sunny UK. Yes! Sunny. Keep doing a few chores and then losing the motivation and energy. Hope you are having a good day.

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ravisd

I have people I can reach out to but I don’t want to for some reason. Like they wouldn’t understand. It was my birthday yesterday and I spent it alone because I felt like I wanted to be alone and isolated- like I didn’t matter.

Apologise if that doesn’t relate to you. I saw the messages your wrote and could relate to what you were both saying

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Forestina in reply toravisd

I think you are entitled to spend your birthday as you wish. They don't have to be wild but can be a time for reflection too.

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ravisd in reply toForestina

That’s true

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Catahrina

well youre lucky, i dont even have 1 friend. never had one, dont know what its like.

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ravisd in reply toCatahrina

It seems like you have an opportunity here to make some, if you want?

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Illboy in reply toCatahrina

ok i know this is late but come on , atleast you have a partner (as evident in your picture) and also you got looks while i don't have any of these

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Catahrina in reply toIllboy

I guess this is why I don’t have friends... everyone probably think the way you do :/ I’ve not always had a partner. And looks don’t matter when you feel like dying :/

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Illboy in reply toCatahrina

sorry if i was rude but i just said what i was feeling ,

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Illboy in reply toIllboy

sorry once again

i didn't mean to hurt you

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