Beat up by the cops last night

[brettalundgren]

I had a horrible fight with my girlfriend and the cops came. It too 5 to get me to the ground. Went to the hospital bloody and bruised. I don't want to loose my girlfriend over this. I need prays to help me not drink and to make a stronger relationship with my girlfriend. Please pray for me.

[Agora1]

Is your girlfriend okay? When alcohol comes to this point in losing control, it needs to be addressed professionally. Not wanting to lose your lose your girlfriend over this isn't enough to make you stop. (I'm sure you know that)

Set up an appointment, get yourself into AA and show your gf that you are doing positive things so that this doesn't happen again and again. I wish you well. My prayers are with you

[b1b1b1]

You are lucky the police didn't shoot you. You will also be lucky if your girlfriend doesn't press charges. You could end up in prison, loosing your job, etc. Agora is right. You must get serious help as soon as possible.

[HearYou]

If you have not been charged with an assault on a police officer and are not writing from jail, people must be praying for you. You need help with your alcohol abuse and anger issues, and AA is the best first step along with a doctor who can help you overcome your addiction.

[Aishahb5364]

You might have known you’d never hurt your girlfriend but she obviously didn’t hence why the pilice came. She must have been terrified, wondering whether this was the night you snapped and physically rather than just emotionally hurt her. She has no control over your actions and that’s a scary place to be in. You need to put yourself in here place. You say you want to improve your relationship with her, well prove it to her by your actions not words. Seek the help you need and be the better person she needs you to be.

[brettalundgren in reply to Aishahb5364]

Thank you

[Aishahb5364 in reply to brettalundgren]

Don’t thank me just seek the help you need to be the person you aspire too be. The void you are trying to fill will not go away with alcohol. I don’t know you or what trauma you have faced but I do know alcohol ALWAYS makes things worse. Suppressed emotions have a way of catching you unawares and bubbling to the surface. We all need to face up to our demons and process our emotions in a positive way.