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Ive been good

Ive been good

These last few months a little aniexty here & there but able to work through it now ive been asked out on a few dates but aniexty has creeped back up i havnt told the person i'm talking to about my aniexty bc its only been about 3 weeks & now im experiencing alot of aniexty symptoms tension headache insomnia & i find myself frowing so much but dont know why im not upset or anything i just frown hard now its feels like something moving on my scalp or insixe my head ive been avoiding my friend im just stuck & dont know what to do or say i suppose to go out this weekend for lunch dont think i am😯 got a nice outfit & everything what do i do??

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I have realized the more open I have talked about my anxiety, the more I hear other stories of others understanding and dealing with it someway or another. Honesty will break all kinds of barriers down with people. It’s up to you but I wouldn’t be afraid to talk about it.

I always work myself up or dread certain things with my anxiety. Once I am there and mentally involved I don’t think about my anxiety and it doesn’t take over. I say go out with your new outfit and take on anxiety and win the battle. Best of luck!

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Thank u so much!! You really made a valiant point i will & you know what ive notice when im engaged it doesnt matter aniexty no where to be found & i will tell him & if he wants to go he have that option

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Girllllll people need to see you rocking this outfit so you have to go out,so pretty

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Thank u!!💞

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Look here Bar B Cue Queen, this is how we met. You will make the man you've been talking to speechless. Thigh high boots that match your under blouse, subtle jeans, and crisp white jacket sharp contrast with your straight coal black beautiful hair. Uptown chic big time. Gorgeous, with all those curves!

Let your anxiety ride along if you must, but in your back jean pocket where you can sit and squash it when needed. Mention what you are comfortable revealing, save more as you get to know him better. Let him do the talking, ask lots of questions and express your interest in his life. (If you're sitting and not talking, that anxiety is being suffocated on your date.)

I have my anxiety and depression and nightmares which my husband learned I don't expect him to understand, but he accepts and has covered my back when needed. In exchange, I don't understand, but try to be hospitable and tolerate his very selfish, wacko adult children.

In our own way, we are making it, with its ups and downs and some VERY direct discussions; July was 10th anniversary. I had sworn I would not marry with my challenges. But I took a chance, anxiety and all: look what I allowed my husband to "win". lol :)xx

Ms. Bar B Cue Queen, enjoy yourself!

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Awweee, i miss talking to u hun! & you are so right take it with me & smash it with all this rump😂 i have as my aunt would call it rump you won!! Big time with your husband!! Thank u for always having the right thing to say when needed💞💞

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Happy Valentines Day. BBQueen! :)

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Happy Valentines too u!!💞

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:)xx

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SO, did you go? Been on ship and the darn internet was not working on almost all the time on the ship? Home now but not going to unpack until tomorrow...ships sound so great.....but we can't do what we would like....need to stay with clients and what they do..... sometimes is just eat, drink, gamble, talk about their next cruise. Balh.....mainly nice people, but wish they still read books so we could talk about the them.....they talk about the movies, but that's not the same as the book the movie is based upon.

So tell me.....how did you , your classy outfit and the night go?

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Heyy Hun sorry for the late response i havnt been on here in a while i went out & the BBQ Queen enjoyed herself!!!💖😍 hope you doing welll!

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Alleluia! and Amen! xx :)

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Am doing well. Was a good week. Learned I will be getting the proper puppy in the fall and a trainer will come to my house to teach the lessons as he grows into adulthood as a service dog. Now I can't wait until the fall!

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Im so so happy for you! I know this is something you been waiting on, Scooter sending you this wonderful smart lovable pup!!!💖💖💖💖

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First off, you look beatuful girlie. Glad to see you have been coming around and dealing with the anxiety. And I know how it is to also have it creep back up. I too am gpong through it again. Well well, a date??? 😳 way to go girlie...I say give it a go anyway this weekend. Call your bluff. I do it sometimes when my anxiety holds me hostage, I test the waters and I end up being ok. For the most part. Nice outfit too.

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Thank u i miss talking to u! & i will do just that call its bluff💞

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Be honest with them Gloria anxiety is so common If they don't want to understand they aren't worth being with You are a gorgeous girl go for your lunch and enjoy it If you had diabetes asthma or whatever you would be up front about it so be the same with anxiety it's 2018 and if anyone still has that attitude that it's something taboo then it's them with the problem xx

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Thank u so much!! Great advice💞

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💕💕

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Slamming outfit i say you should go there were times i went out when anxiety wanted me to stay in and trust me it turned out to be so much fun just go with the flow and don't overthink it.

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I LOVE your boots!💕

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Thank u! 💞 Hott boots🔥😂

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I have the same problem with the tension in my head and the feeling of "something crawling" in my scalp. I have had multiple panic attacks a day ever since my miscarriage. Doctors are saying hormone induced anxiety. Girl you better rock that outfit and go out. You look great. Just keep telling yourself, you can do this.

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Thank u! & i hope you over come your aniexty & sorry about your miscarriage

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