I don't know if I belong here, but my problem is if someone tells me something is wrong, I immediately go to remedy mode. In example, my niece came to me and said, "I can't find Elise, she's gone." These kids are 5 and 6. I immediately made everyone look for Elise (my child). I found Elise hiding in a closet. They were playing hide and seek. I could have asked if they were playing a game before making everyone freak out.