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But i dont even care to celebrate it i"m grateful to be alive i usually celebrate it with a nice glass of wine family but today i dont really want to be bothered😞

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Well......since you posted this, I have the feeling you actually want to talk about what the heck is going on.

So, what the heck is going on?

Dear Gloria,

Come on, let us know what is happening. Most of the day is gone where I live, and we need to wish a HAPPY birthday somehow before the day is gone. What's happening?

Anxiety or the blues because you looked at photos of your birthday last year?

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Gloria_carr in reply to

No i havnt looked @ any of my last pictures its the aniexty i did get my feet done & hands yesterday. But today the aniexty was at a all time high went to church & my heart started pounding & feet & legs was shaking i was so anxious but i really enjoyed church the loud music just wish the aniexty went somewhere else i did finally calm down but after church i felt good but still didnt want to be bothered

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Daniellesparkles

Happy birthday to you! Please try to enjoy yourself

Ok, Gloria.

I understand. You want to enjoy the peace, quiet and the fact your anxiety is under control right now. I have had birthdays like that. Didn't have the energy and didn't want anything going on that would cause the anxiety to rise to high gear. But if you have family with you now, and the anxiety is under control, if there is a bottle of Coke (no alcohol with your meds, right?) and a few fancy glasses, why don't you have a quiet toast in honor of the whole family....for you for not giving up and to the others for their support of you. :)

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And please take your shoes off so those well manicured tootsies join in......I just can't still for a manicure and pedi, I just start wiggling in the chair wondering can't she do this faster? :)

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Vbee in reply to

Ha ha I'm the same with pedicure and hairdresser - pure torture sitting there.

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Gloria_carr in reply toVbee

I found myself feeling normal @ the nail shop maybe bc of the people that came was amusing to see they hair style the long broom eyelashes they were getting didnt have not 1 aniexty attack @ the nail shop Saturday 😄

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Agora1 in reply toGloria_carr

Hi Gloria_carr, maybe the answer to anxiety/depression is being pampered once in a while. Belated Happy Birthday! x

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Gloria_carr in reply toAgora1

Thank u! Agora1 but it went into full attack mode sunday @ church i'm thinking bc i was excited to be there & the loud music i was clapping & tapping my feet next thing i knew was my heart started pounding & fluttering i said oh no not here of all places

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Agora1 in reply toGloria_carr

Gloria, that's the thing about anxiety whether excited or stressed, our over sensitized nervous system reacts the same. Church has gotten me into that state many times because of the emotional tug at our heart. Don't let that keep you away though. Don't let anxiety control where you go and what you want to do.

Deep slow breaths when this happens can help quiet down your mind and body. Have a good day :)

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Gloria_carr in reply toAgora1

You are so right see aniexty of this level is very new to me & thats what i did took deep slow breaths & i wasnt going to go back but i wont let this aniexty stop me!!😄 thanks

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Well, it's a bit late, but here goes my favorite children's song for birthdays:

Happy, happy birthday

May all your dreams come true.

Happy, happy birthday

from all of us to you.

May you have happy birthdays

all your whole life through.

Happy, happy Birthday to YOUUUUUUU! :)

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Gloria_carr in reply to

Thats beautiful! ! Thanks 👍😄

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Well, happy birthday to all of you. That song was sung by an American Cowboy on a children's TV program every day when I was a child.

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Gloria_carr in reply to

Ive never heard of it well we wont get into age! Lol😄

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Well! I have you know it was produced by one of two channels in Louisville. A person would be the envy of the rest of elementary if chosen to b on the program and sing along. Ahhh, very special honor.

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Gloria_carr in reply to

Oh so it was just in Louisville thats why ive never heard of it

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iyaa

Happy birthday to you was my birthday too yesterday 23july

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Gloria_carr in reply toiyaa

Happy belated BDay. Iyaa

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Agora1 in reply toiyaa

Happy belated Birthday iyaa...Hope it was a good one :)

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b_blessed_07

Happy birthday.. mine is on tuesday enjoy!

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Gloria_carr in reply tob_blessed_07

Hope you have a wonderful beautiful Birthday

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Agora1 in reply tob_blessed_07

Happy Birthday b_blessed_07 May all your wishes come true x

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menagerie11

Happy Belated Birthday! Hope you are having a great day today, as you begin a new year around the sun.

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Gloria_carr in reply tomenagerie11

Thank you! its going well

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menagerie11

Wonderful! So glad to hear that you are having a good day!

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Gloria_carr in reply tomenagerie11

Hope you are having a awesome day!

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menagerie11

Thank you Glorica_carr. It's a good day; I've been getting things done despite anxiety, in preparation for going to work tomorrow. Hope your evening is lovely, and that you feel peaceful and calm.

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