Venting...

[Cris987x]

I am constantly checking up on my girls social media... I do it 24/7 none stop... I do it because the thing she be posting is aggravating and I don't know what to do... she also likes put up a lot of pictures of herself and it's annoying to see because she has a lot of guy followers... she tells me she loves me but she's always bringing up something about her ex and I feel like she can never take me serious because of him... she doesn't want to go out in public yet because she's worried she might see him and she's always saying "I feel weird doing a lot of things with you" but we already had sex? No of this makes sense... I'm mentally exhausted from thinking about her all the time... I'm 18 and so is she

[Angep Star]

Seriously!! You need to sit down and talk it through with her!! It's better to start out with you both knowing where you stand!! Agree to be able to talk through anything your not happy about so you don't brood on it!!! Social media often causes lots of problems in relationships especially if one or both of you feel insecure!!! Talking to her is the best way forward and if she is willing to do this you have a very good chance of sorting things out. Good luck sunshine 👍

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Hello

I have a son who is 22 and he tells me a lot about how things are now a days and believe me when I say it seems like a mind field this dating game and it also seems girls are so much different than what I remember we were like , not all girls may I add but a lot of them

They also seem to be very much into putting pictures of themselves mainly I believe to get attention but that does not mean that they want to be with the people they get attention from but to be honest I see it as been insecure on their behalf and wanting reassuring people think they are beautiful because deep down I don't think they actually believe it or why keep doing it ?

However , checking her status all day will drive you mad as well as the more you check it the more you will read into what you see and could cause resentment which leads to arguments and then could lead to you splitting up which is something you need to consider

But you are both very young and you should be enjoying your life , having fun , going out with friends yet you don't seem to be and the fact that she does not want to be seen out with you cannot be doing your self worth any good and to be honest if someone cares about you they should want to be showing you of not hiding you away !

I don't know you or the girl in question and can only go on what you have put in your post but I am wondering if this girl of yours still has feelings for her ex , maybe he does not want her back so in the meantime she is trying to move on with you but deep down hopes her ex may change his mind and that is why she is trying to keep your relationship quite , this could be totally wrong what I am thinking but it is not normal not to want to be seen with someone and if it were me as you have so much time ahead of you to find " The One " I would tell her that you at least want to be seen out with her and acknowledged that you are her boyfriend and if she won't then I would move on , get out enjoy life and if you wait that person that really will respect you will come along

Take Care x

[valachia-t]

I believe you are on the wrong cite. This cite basically deals with people that have more serious concerns which are health issues, not personal problems.