Why dont spouse's care ? :(

[Dylon19]

I deal with panic attacks everyday for the past 6 yrs wrecked my whole highschool yrs.. but whenever I ask kindly of my gf to jus talk or jus be there for a sit down and calm down she freaks out ... her exscuse is I dono what to do and it came to a point im jus more sad then frusterated it jus seems like the only one I have don't care... everysingle im im having a a episode walks past me or says I need mentall help... but when I come n here and start typing It goes away

[_Reba_]

My ex boyfriend was the same. He didn't want to accept the fact that I had anxiety.

People who have never suffered a panic attack, usually don't know how to react. She probably doesn't know what to do to make you feel better. I would say she cares Maybe just difficult to show it.

Me and my ex boyfriend broke up because of anxiety. We are still great friends now though. If you can, maybe simply talk to her? I know she pushes it off but just sit down with her and talk calmly

[Dylon19 in reply to _Reba_]

sorry late response ! i tried what you said but simply didnt work :/ ill try different ways :)!

and see mayby something i find works

[_Reba_ in reply to Dylon19]

Hope you find what works for you

[Sbusick42413]

I know exactly how you are feeling. My husband thinks telling me to calm down when I am in a panic attack is going to help. Then he yells at me and watches tv as if I didn't exist. I told him that it is not that easy to control my panic attacks. I have panic attacks almost every day, and I can't breathe.... I don't even know how I got these problems. Of course my husband calls me mental all the time. maybe that doesn't help either....... I am sorry that you had to go through it without someone caring....

[Dylon19 in reply to Sbusick42413]

thats what this page is about to find others tho right !? me and you are not alone !!

[Missjd]

I think sometimes people want to be the one who always helps you. So when they don't know how to help, they don't want to acknowledge the problem. Like my dad, I have anxieties and he is always the one to fix things but this is something he can't fix so he acts like it's not there