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Well had my baby boy xxx am so in love all over again but also feel broken sad and emotional at the same time no one here for me to hold me tell me all will be ok that they will never leave and so all over so know I need happy pills I know gone throu to much to fast and M the online trying to cope I'd love the man I had two boys wirh holing me so much MUxh but I xanr get hold of him M a mess in my emotional wreck

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Hello

Congratulations :-)

How wonderful what lovely news and I am pleased that both you and baby are well :-)

Have we picked a name yet ?

The emotional side you are feeling I wish we were all near as I am sure we would give you hugs and I understand how you must feel you need that so much especially at a time like this but look at that beautiful little face of your baby what you have brought into the world and when you are giving him lots of cuddles try and feel the warmth back that he will give to you :-)

Your emotions will be even more raw than ever you have just given birth , hormones all over the place and as lonely as you feel you will never be alone been blessed with Children one day they will be there for you and will shower you with love :-)

Take Care x

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Thanks I call him junior and was 6lb 11oz X

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allnew2me

Congratulations!!!!!! Your baby is there, he can't hold you yet but you'll always be in his heart and him iN yours so he'll never leave you.

This time is going to be harder than it was before you had him but you can do it. Keep talking. Have you spoken to any of the midwives about any of this?

If you aren't breastfeeding then a trip to the Dr and he may be able to give you something now although I don't know how willing they will be with your hormones at a peak. Even if they don't prescribe anything just yet you can go back if you aren't mAking progress but once you are over these first week or so you should feel a bit better. There is a light at the end of the tunnel and you will find it. For now we are all here till you do but bagsy I'm not doing night feeds or nappies 😂😂😂 x

P.s what did your little bundle weigh and what did you call him?

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Shell04 in reply to allnew2me

Aw thanks X o call him junior and he was 6lb 11oz am just worried that I know I. We'd to take somethings to help me be the best I can but I don't know how it will affect baby through my milk as I breastfeed rhat what's woman ha w boobys for I see it 🙈 God gave us all the bonus to feed put baby's and bond X

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Oliveira42970

Congrats on ur baby there is nothing in this world that is better than ur kids smiling at you and love u no matter what hang in there you have a beautiful reason to fight this anxiety my kids r the ones that I have a reason to win this battle that takes over once in awhile sending u both best wishes and again congrats

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Shell04 in reply to Oliveira42970

Thanks JUSY so low family a mess it's broken am a mess I've throu to much over this last year No one bit of support while pregnant and after so I don't k owners to turn so want a cuddle and some one melt all me pain away

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1973m

Wow,,,, congratulations on your baby boy 💙 , please don't feel negative , you've just achieved the most amazing thing ever well done !! You cant possibly expect to be able to feel rational at the moment or for the next few weeks , give yourself time ,we'll all be here still , concentrate on your baby you'll be fab all the best xx

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Thank you for your kind words xxx I just need help

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wentworth67

Such happy news hope you both well be strong and take care love paula xxxxx

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Shell04 in reply to wentworth67

Thanks yeh both good just mummy needs some help xxxx and good support

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6lb 11oz and junior xx

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Just is it safe to take fluoxetine while beware feeding xxx

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no lv I'm on them xx

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