She is 27 years old and suffers from anxiety, depression and has a very terrible addictive personality. She lived about 80 miles away with her 2 dogs and worked with b/friend as a lap dancer, he is manager of the club. That is how they met. I couldn't stop her choosing this line of work and honestly thought she'd grow out of it after a few months but she didn't and has now been doing dancing for 8 yrs. she had a coccaine habit when she arrived back home 2 days after being dumped. She left her dogs their with the Ex. She is distraught with anxiety because she loves and misses them both she owned before she met her ex. I cannot have her live with me because I too am ill with anxiety/depression/ill health and controlled by a lot of medication, so selfishly I told my mum she has to look after her. My mother is amazing woman but at 77yrs old and anniversary of my fathers passing today 5 years has started my depression and anxiety off very very badly, I've stopped eating, talking face to face with people that's why I am holding out to anyone on here that can offer me some words of comfort anything. I am married to husband of 11 yrs not her father. My husband doesn't like her, said she is manipulating and lazy. This of course really hurts my feelings.
We have our own problems because I also have fibromyalgia and Ulcerative Colitis/Crohns Disease this has ruined a certain part of our marriage.
Please someone help me I cannot stop thinking about my girl, her future her missing her dogs. My mother cannot help as she lives in flat. She is still dancing back here from my mums flat. No secrets all honest and pays her tax and insurance but said she doesn't have any other way of working to get deposit together to find a bedsit and have her dogs back with her again. Today she had a meltdown hysterical crying I had to hang up the phone. What sort of a mother am I. Letting my elderly mother take care of her. Even though my mum has said many times she can cope. In the past 2 weeks she is clean from coccaine since living with her nan. Unbelievable progress. But why O why do I feel such guilt, anxiety and sadness. Please someone give me hope