Here is a good picture of the cake!

I think I feel proud of the cake, I'm still not sure!!!

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That's beautiful! X

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it looks beautiful!

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I no I am proud of Winter & her Cake & I am sure

love

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I feel sick I am getting more and more worried about the cake and whether she likes it

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Winter

Please try & believe me , I have bet my Will-i-am tickets on this one , she is going to love it , please on this one trust me

Now relax & have a look what chocolate you have left to spoil yourself with

xxx

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It's just that the husband is not talking to me again. I don't really know why, he got annoyed last night that I had discussed the problem I would have delivering the cake with the counsellor and not him. Before that he had already tried to bully me into going with him to deliver it. This morning he was in such a bad mood I really wanted to keep out of his way. I did everything to get the cake ready for delivery, so all he needed to do was get in the car and go. He still isn't talking to me and all I want to do is panic and cry. Xxx

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Hi Winter

Sorry been on a mission & just seen this , so is he talking yet

Dont let him get you down hun

Also have you pointed out to him , thats what a counsellor is there for , for you to talk to

I wouldnt let it bother me , he will talk to you eventually they always do , enjoy the peace & quite while you can

xxx

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I'm utterly fed up with it all. I think it's because I asked him to deliver the cake. I ask him do everything apparently. Whilst he was delivering the cake I swept and mopped the floors, did some washing, tidied the kitchen, sorted the ironing out and probably something else that I've forgotten about. He was only gone 90mins!

I just want to be able to go out and get away from him, I feel really sad I cannot talk to my mum about it.

At the moment I'm just ignoring him and refusing to speak o don't seem to be able to do anything right.

Sorry to have to moan on, I seem to do nothing else but!

Xxx

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Some men want to be in control & dont like it when they are not , I dont no but from what you say he seems a bit that way

Sometimes you have to be with them like you are with your kids & if they want to sulk just let them get on with it

I no you might not find this easy , as you are sensitive , but at least when he is sulking , he cant moan at you & thats the way I would look at it

He is been mardy & again like kids when things are not going their way or we ask them to do something that they dont want to , they say something to try & hurt us , thats what he is doing & you have to think of it that way , if you do it does get easier & becomes natural & you just learn to ignore them

You dont really want to get away from him do you

O hun I no , so many times I wished my Mum was still here so I could ask her things as well , I no its not been long since you lost your Mum , try & think if she was here what she would be saying to you , many times if I sit quite I can imagine what mine would be saying

We are here , I no its not the same , but we will always listen to you

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Thank you, I've remembered what else I did I cleaned the bathrooms! He keeps telling me that I am childish! He's gone to the gym now so the negativity has gone! X

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Hi winter

Please feel proud and do not get upset. You have done a fantastic job. Your husband not talking to you will eventually come around.

Sometimes they are worse than children and he should appreciate how hard you have worked not only on the cake but in the house.

I am sure he will realize his wrong to get annoyed over something so small like delivering a cake.

Keep your chin up and do not let anything or anyone burst your bubble.

Big hugs

Love Seyi xxx

[bonnie1959]

I am so proud of you winter. And so you should be. Its lovely

Bonnie

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[thomson1898]

Winter it is beautiful, so elegant!

Can I ask, where do you get the ideas from?

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Hi Thomson, this one came from the lady saying she wanted something Greek! We had a look together on google and she liked one and I adapted it for her budget then it changed slightly when she produced the cake topper xx

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Crikey I would need step-by-step instructions for something like that & still get it wrong, I do admire you.

I'm sure you'll get great feedback & there's no better advert than word of mouth

x

[LadySaabra]

Hi Winter.

Wow, love that cake - those flowers look lovely. Read something the other day about baking helping depression/anxiety...does it help? Think I might have a go...want to master pastry

Sam

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Yes it does if it goes right. No if it doesn't go alright! I do love doing it I just hate the fact I have to ask the whole world for confirmation that its ok. Xxxx

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that is lovely and very elegant! you have a great talent

something to make you smile -

my friend's sister made a "snow white" cake with all the dwarves in bed. All tucked in, they had little sleep hats on and their slippers at the foot of the bed. The 6 of them looked soooooo cute!

Yes six! she'd missed one out!

the party was nearly ready and the guests on their way...

quick thinking and she'd fixed it.

she made two lower legs with shoes and made a "bump"in the drape of the quilt to the floor.

so 6 are in bed now and one is half hidden under it!

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Love it xx

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That's us absolutely beautiful !!!

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You need to come to America I know I replied once but I lust can't get over how eloquent that is I have a friend that does her business is called cutie patooti❤❤❤xx

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Thank you so much for that, you've really made me smile. You've made me feel quite clever. I very rarely feel good about myself, you've really boosted me thank you again xx

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