Well I did it!
I've told him I am not being selfish, stubborn or anything like that. He said why carnt I just switch to rational! If I could I would! I told him I needed his help I cannot do this on my own.
So he has decided I need a to do list for next week where I have to go out every day even if its just round the block. Then I can reward myself, I said with cake? Or a sticker? He said I was too old for a sticker ( I quite like that idea) but he did agree that I could have a reward chart!!!??
He also said we will go into town in the morning like we used to do, instead of me saying ok and filling myself with pressure I said I will see how I feel in the morning.
There was quite a bit more but I will not bore you all with that.
Thank you everyone for your love and support it means the world to me xxxxxxxxxx?