Hi all, it’s been a while.

[littler75]

Hi all, it’s been ages since i’ve been on here, i’m doing okay at the moment, still have my low days sometimes, but I manage them okay. I have a question really, my husband is going to out to London with workmates next week, only it’s my birt whichhday this sat, we have his kids and mine plus our son so we can’t go out, I really wanted to go out next wkend but he has made other plans, I told him he knew I wanted to go out and at this point started going off on one saying im trying to control him, he is sick off it and went off on a rant, to which I said I never said no just that I was dissapointed with him, I also asked him if he was away overnight and got told I have him on a .ball and chain, I said my parents have been married for 40yrs and my mum asks my dad where is he going and what time will he be home, I can’t see his problem tbh. I really want to ask if i’ve been unreasonable? Sorry for the rant.

[Cookster99]

Hi

Say what, he said what, no you are not being unreasonable and if I were you, I'd go out the weekend after his precious London trip without him, let him babysit and when he asks what, where and when, tell him what he told you.

MEN god, I'm glad I'm with a woman now. My ex used to be like that but soon shut up when I played him at his own game. Respect is a two way street.

Don't blame yourself, he's the one being unreasonable.

Good luck xxxxx love Cookie xxx

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hi littler. when I read your blog I thought what an inconsiderate sod , very selfish, and I'm a bloke, when he gets back get yourself out with your mates and enjoy yourself on a bloody good night out and see how he enjoys being taken for granted. sorry for the rant grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.