I can hear the clip clop of that dating pony arriving....lol

Well b***ocks to it............... My ex who is sooo heartbroken is back on a dating site (yes I know i shouldnt have looked, and its the only reason I registered to have a look and see if he was on)...

Well anyway yes he's back on............... so b***ocks to thatI

Ive filled in my profile and Im going to jump back on that dating pony................. By no means ready for a relationship but a friendship may be nice to take my mind things............

I will be honest with people........ I wont mess anyone around........I believe in karma , so i'll be up front..........

I hope everyone is ok..............

Ker xx

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  • Good luck and I hope you find someone decent Anne, you deserve to be happy as well you know xxx best of luck.

    I'm glad I'm in a stable relationship as I couldn't be arsed going through that again lol. Xxx

  • thanks cookie......... I dont wana fall in love, it hurts too much, but nice to have a friend!!

    Hope you and your oh are ok??

    xx

  • We are getting there,

    I don't blame you, I'd just want a companion if I had to do it again, I haven't got the patience to listen to all the b***ocks again lol. Must be my age. Xxx

  • thats good!!

    Take care xx

  • Please be careful on those dating sites. There are a lot of weirdos out there xxx

    Well if u can cope with us lot lol :-) be safe xxx

  • Im always very safe, meet for coffee first during the day.......

    lets face it I could meet a wierdo on a night out........ no guarantees unfortunately........

    xxxx

  • That's true, then again I've found the weirdos more interesting lol xxx

  • you make me smile :-) xx

  • If it makes you feeling any better I'm only split up with my ex three weeks now and I think they are already seeing someone. Oh well lol :-)

  • thing is it dont really make me feel better................. but you have to move on...............xx

  • Let them put up with the Mother from hell. Who know's it may be her that has put something on there for him, since she runs his life. Surprised she didnt turn up on your first date. Do you really want to go back to the crazy loon hanging around!! xx

  • Nah I dont Lou............ and I know the new girlfriend will need a lot of strength......... but it still hurts............... and Im really sick of going through the crap with men......... when will I ever learn....

    HOw are you mrs??

    xxx

  • Yeh just talking to my mate on fb and she is going through the same thing. I am being ignored but to be honest i have had enough now. I started shifts again yesterday.Hasnt bothered to see how i got on. I know i have said time and time again..................but this is the last straw for me. His mum said again to move on, and its time. She said stay as friends, but i dont want to be friends. All i have done and this is all i get. Enough is enough................i am like you i am sick of crappy relationships. xx

  • Yeah its crap for you and I think worse in some ways cos you have a half life with him...........

    Always here for you...........youve been really good to me...........

    xx

  • I havent really said a lot. Its not been even half a life. A 3 x a day phone call and how he is feeling. The last 8 months i have been more of a carer.

    Thank you and likewise. Just at the mo i am less vocal than i ever have been. See things on here i want to write, but have a mental block and cant think. xx

  • Sometimes Hun you've got to put yourself first......... thats what I did with stephen when I finished it............. I still loved him but how long do you go on putting someone elses needs before your own..... well thats how it was for me...

    Cant say its easy cos its not.........and seeing him on the dating site has killed me.... but maybe my anxiety starting again since last Oct was cos I knew things werent right.....

    and if he was that bothered he would have wanted to sort it out..........

    I think you have been amazing with your oh......... message me anytime

    Sending lots of love

    xx

  • Shame he cant see it, but hey ho thats his loss.........................same here you know you can message me anytime. I will get back to you. I am on shifts and some 13 hour long, but i will reply.........................chin up love with him being on the dating site. Like you say he could have sorted things out. Thats what i had with him, He knows its his fault but wont do anything to change it................to me if he cared about me he wouldnt put me through it again and again. Its time to think f@@k it, and for the first time i dont want to speak to him. We will get there. xx

  • 13 hours........what do you do?? A nurse??

    Your oh dont realise how lucky he is.............. but I guess thats men for you luv...........

    xx

  • Your`e lucky in one respect, at least he isn`t stalking you like some men do when a relationship is over.

  • Yes thats true............. we live in different towns though 100 miles away from each other and he also works in london mon to fri.... so he cant really do that... ;-) but yes it is better............. I must remember that xx

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