So I went for a job interview yesturday for a bus driver, their were 3 stageages of the interview, 1) a written assessment, 2) a driving assessment & 3) the interview, as I turned up to the interview I felt panicky whitch is'nt normal for me to feel in these situations, I'm normally very confident and my anxiety would be nowhere to be seen, well this times its taken a front seat, so yeh. I'm feeling panicky I take a seat and a women puts the written assessment in front of me and I begin, half way through the written I'm sweating quite badly and feeling dizzy, I got through it but barely, then I get taken through to another room to have the interview, standing up for a short moment of time had helped me get myself together a little but I was not aware about what I was about to feel, so I take a seat with the main man at his desk and the interview starts, everything was going well, then as the interview went on I started becoming aware of feeling all weird and not right. I started having heart palps and sweating again, through all of this I kept myself composed and tried to act normal, but eventually I could'nt deal with it all and had to stop the guy talking and ask him if he did'nt mind if I went to the toilet, I'm pretty sure he could see I was'nt quite right, he said yes so I quickly got up and went to the loo, I went into a cubicle and nearly starting crying I was a mess a complete Reck, I took a proprananolol and took some deep breaths pretty soon I felt ok again but I was'nt quite right so I called my girlfriend for some comfort and to tell her what was happening, she told me to explain the the guy what had happened but I thought its best not to as it might effect me getting the job, anyway I sorted myself out and went back to the interview, the guy was waiting and I explained I felt panicky in interviews (not true) he laughed it off and said not to worry, I was past the hard part he said, so he began explaining company policy and how pay is worked out ect, I felt fine for a little while then Bang it all starting happening again but luckily I managed to hold it together till the end of the interview, then came the driving assessment, that went well, I feel fine when I'm driving probably because I am in control of the situation, but at the end of the assessment the women who was assessing me starting talking about the drive and how I did well but all I wanted to do was get the hell out of the van, the hole process of the interview and assessments took over 2 hours and through all of it I was battleing my anxiety, I don't think I even managed to listen to the guy in the interview because I was that tied up with trying to cope with the anxiety. I know in myself I'm not ready for work but again I'm in a battle with myself over self pride and I don't want to let anyone down,
P.S Anxiety is ruleing my life
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I can really empathise with this, poor you I'm so sorry..I'm not working at he moment had to give up my job due to anxiety, a good job too...
It's real difficult, the feeling you are letting people down I am like that...but we need to give ourselves time to get better....
I hope you have a good day today...your not alone in feeling the way you do
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Hiya and well done for getting through it.
I gave up work due to anxiety and like sleepless, it was a good job and I loved it but as it involved caring for people at the end of their lives I needed to be there 100% mentally and emotionally and I couldn't do that so I left. I miss the people though, they were so brave. Xxx good luck to you and give yourself a pat on the back xxx
Hi mate,if you are not ready then that's it.I was offered a job about a month ago,like you,I had 3 stages to go through,sign up to the agency,already sweating like a sumos crutch,interview with the actual employer,sweating like several crutches and very concerned that it is obvious to everyone,final stage,fill in crb form etc,felt guilty filling one in,whats all that about.
I got home and thought,no chance,too old,too sweaty,came across as not suitable,I felt as if they could see my anxiety as, at the time,I was in a very bad state.Guess what,phone call,job offer,the outstanding applicant.I was not elated,I could not sleep and at 2 the following morning I sent an email declining the offer.I knew I was not ready,sure,I was pissed off but,I needed to be honest.Still a bit gutted but off in a different direction now,a completely unexpected direction but one that I believe suits me and will also help me to fully recover.
Don't feel too down,things happen for a reason,my anxiety has led me in the direction I am heading and its the right direction for me,your time will come.
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Well said, I believe things happen for a reason. I'm glad you are happy in what you do. Xxx
Yes i too have turned 2 job offers down, feel so guilty but I know I'm not ready and couldn't go through the anxiety that comes with work when you are not ready it is so awful...I agree with Castel
Thanks for all your comments I really like to hear what other people have to say and its nice to know people read my blogs, thanks for all your support, cheers,
I think you should give yourself a huge pat on the back for getting through a 2 hour interview, anyone would find that stressful, let alone if you have panic/ anxiety problems. You did really well. I find my job relieves me of my anxiety and I have no problems when I am working as it occupies my mind. Maybe as you feel 'in control' when you are driving you would be fine to do this job. I hope whatever you decide works out for you. BUT, well done again for staying with the interview. A great acheivement. xx
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