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Feeling overwhelmed. Widowed 2 years ago and my job of 28 years was eliminated in Sept 24. I thought I was doing ok but now that the severance package is ending and I am having to look for a new job some days it is just heavy.

[Stilltrying2]

Welcome LifeChanged61,

Welcome to the community. This community can be a place of comfort. There are many supportive members willing to listen.

[Hidden in reply to Stilltrying2]

Thank you. I appreciate knowing that I am welcome. It feels so foreign to be 61.5 and all of the sudden feel so lost. I miss my husband so much more than I realized I think. Maybe bottled all of that loss up and then the rest of the rug got swiped. Friends and family are great but they expect a certain amount of courage and strength and I feel less of that than ever right now. I like your name "Still trying" I am gonna remember to keep that in mind as I try to navigate.

[Stilltrying2 in reply to Hidden]

Everyone handles grief differently. One day you can be fine and the next day it can overwhelm you. It’s ok to not be strong every day. I see grief as a journey with good days and bad days. Don’t be so hard on yourself. I hope you can find some comfort sharing here. You are not alone.

[nativeblood]

Keep courage and faith you got skills employers need more than others, welcome here, still surround urself with allies of this forum as well we are glad to have you nonetheless

[Hidden in reply to nativeblood]

Thanks a lot nativeblood. I appreciate having allies here. I'm not too worried about the job part, it will come. Just the feelings that are coming from the losses and wondering who the heck am I now. Not old but not a kid either so it seems hard and add in a Mom with dementia and I just need some way to vent my fears and worries.

[nativeblood in reply to Hidden]

many of us are here and you got options on who to follow as well also and chat with take your time as well remember to vent let it out as well

[RS1974]

Welcome to our group 😊 Sorry you're struggling right now sweetie 🥰 Hugs 🤗

[catsrock]

Welcome. I am also 61 and looking for a job. Cheering you on and hope you find the right job for you soon.

[Hidden in reply to catsrock]

Cheering for you too!

[Nairobi7]

Sorry for you loss, and the challenge that you are going through. Know that everything will work out in your favor as it relates to getting a new opportunity to make income. This is only temporary and better days are ahead for you for sure, keep your eyes focused on the horizon, soon and very soon, the sun will shine. Have Faith!