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I'm so ugly. I'm unlovable. Why would anyone remotely attractive be interested in me. I'm so hideous. I'm not thin enough. Not even close. I'm not even that overweight. I keep hearing things like love yourself, they're wrong, maybe you should lose weight, no one will love you until you love yourself (which I think is untrue entirely), and you can control people's opinions by changing (this one is crazy). I don't want to hear it...I just want someone to tell me I'm pretty enough...my depression is consuming...

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Celtic18

Hello to you I'm sorry to hear you are so unhappy remember that that beauty comes from within why do feel ugly not every ones made the same so I don't think your are ugly I think you are trying to live up to the magazines idea of beauty but try not to look at these as they only reinforce a person's negativity just be your self ! If you've not already got to a physiatrist and ask for help I truly wish you all the best go out and leave your life to the full God bless xx

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Not_a_victim in reply toCeltic18

Thank you :) I feel like people are pressured into those magazines standard so much

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Celtic18 in reply toNot_a_victim

I hope to fell better for your self

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Ticktick

Ah! Not a victim ,everyone is pretty or handsome Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholderJust you wait

You don't know who is round the corner

Cometh the hour cometh the man/woman

Just hang in there ?

God bless you

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Mohammad-341

Whosoever you are, you don't need people's certificate to be good. Enjoy and work hard in gym or park

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Not_a_victim in reply toMohammad-341

I'm tryin lol

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Mohammad-341

I know it is easier said than done at ur age but believe me we don't need any certificate for us to be good. I m 47 and remained on antidepressants for the reason I was thin during my younger hood that spoiled my young age

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Not_a_victim in reply toMohammad-341

Thank you

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RS1974

Sweetie I also struggled with thinking I was ugly not this and that enough but at 50 and overweight and I would say younger self you were skinny and unhappy and now your overweight and Happy. Work on your self esteem with a therapist and start to like yourself.You're perfect the way you are.

You're good enough and true beauty looks at the heart and nothing else.

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Not_a_victim in reply toRS1974

Thank youuu :))

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RS1974 in reply toNot_a_victim

You're welcome 😊 Send me a message if you need to talk

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Not_a_victim in reply toRS1974

I definitely will🥰

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RS1974 in reply toNot_a_victim

😊

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