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I had a mammogram a few days ago and they found “something “ in my right breast. Have to go back for more intensive mammogram and an ultrasound on Tuesday. I’m trying not to let it worry me but cancer runs rampant on my moms side of family. It’s probably nothing, but you never know. This doesn’t help with the already bad anxiety. Just trying to stay positive! Keep me in your thoughts and prayers. Sorry if this was an inappropriate post….just needed to get it out.

Hope everyone is having the best day that they can 🙂

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Shnookie

I’m so sorry you received this news. I’ll say healing ❤️‍🩹 prayers. It’s understandable that you are anxious especially with a genetic predisposition of cancer in your family. This is not an inappropriate post. We are all here for each other. But beside here there might be a website on HU dealing with women’s’ health. About 30 years ago, I found something hard in my left breast. Went to the specialist and was told I could leave it there. There was no way in Hell that I was going to leave it in. It was removed and fortunately benign. Please keep us updated.

Hugs 🤗 S

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Rufus07 in reply toShnookie

Thank you for your support. I’ll keep y’all posted.

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Shnookie in reply toRufus07

I’m here 4 U.

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Rufus07 in reply toShnookie

Thank you

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Shnookie in reply toRufus07

You are very welcome. Sending you good karma.

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Rufus07

It's very scary when this happens. So many women go through this. I'm sending positive thoughts your way. I hope everything works out ok

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Rufus07 in reply toDolphin14

Thank you for the positive thoughts

I’ll be thinking of you Tuesday and sending all the good vibes your way!

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Rufus07 in reply toI_just_want_to_read

Thank you

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SayNOtoPanic

Lifting you in prayer Rufus. Good things will come. 🙏🏻

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Rufus07 in reply toSayNOtoPanic

Thank you

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Momsneedhelp

Praying for you and I hope everything goes well and smoothly.

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Rufus07 in reply toMomsneedhelp

Thank you

I'm so sorry you are going through this, it is understandable that you are worried. I know it will be difficult to pass the time until tomorrow but try to find something soothing to do that will take your mind off of it even if it's just a few minutes at a time.

Praying for the best.

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Rufus07 in reply toDesperate4Happiness

Thank you

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punkster

I had a palpable mass in my right breast that didn't show up on a mammogram due to dense breasts. I had an ultrasound and a core needle biopsy and it turned out to be cystic. I remember having extreme anxiety. It's easy for me to say, but try not to "borrow trouble". Many breast masses turn out to be nothing.

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Rufus07 in reply topunkster

Thank you for your concern

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Run333

sending prayers for peace of mind and heart! 🙏🏻❤️

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Rufus07 in reply toRun333

Thank you

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catsrock

I've had this happen twice and all was fine. I hope the same for you. Do you know if you have dense breasts (hope it's ok to ask)? That's my issue and why they can have trouble reading a basic mammogram for me.

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Rufus07 in reply tocatsrock

Yes I do

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Rufus07 in reply tocatsrock

thank you for your concern

I hope you get good results with all of your tests. I am sending good thoughts, and hugs your way! 🤩🤩

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Rufus07 in reply tocasablancalover14

Thank you very much

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No_Longer_Human

It's normal to be anxious. When my mom had an exam on this, i was so anxious. Praying everything is okay. Be kind to yourself and trust the process. Don't read online and don't assume the worst. Everything will be alright x

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Rufus07 in reply toNo_Longer_Human

What’s keeping me from totally losing it is that I figured if it was a big concern of the doctor, they would of had me come right in.

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No_Longer_Human in reply toRufus07

Yes, exactly. I just called grandma to tell her her results are out and if she saw them, she said "nah, if something was off, they would tell me". This woman is wild

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Solocat

Hi Rufus07! Glad to talk to you again!

Well, I'm a man, but luckily I'm a medical interpreter for the pair Spanish-English, also called a "translator", meaning I translate the conversations between patient-doctors in either direction. In such a position I interpret lots of conversations where a patient has to have a mammogram done after having a routine screening procedure. The second one is called "diagnostic" and that's when they want to make sure everything is ok.

Why am I telling you all this? Because during those calls each time a patient gets referred for a diagnosis it is because there are many things doctors can still do to act on time in case they see something at that point. So, you're doing all the right things to get yourself checked and treated should the need arises.

Anxious? Who would not be??? But it helps a lot to stay positive and of course my heart goes to you in these moments. Let's be thankful for the good things and learn from the bad, and let's hope everything goes well like I've seen myself so many times.

I hope this helps, Cheers!

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Rufus07 in reply toSolocat

It did help! Thank you for your reply.

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Solocat

I'm very glad it helped!! 😊🌈

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