Can People tell?

[EricJones]

Can anyone tell that my body movements are in response to them? Can they "catch me" paying attention? Are there signs I give off that are obvious to them, that I'm focused on them, or is it all in my head and not happening?

[Agora1]

Hi Eric, Oh it's happening physically to you for whatever deep reason. However,

other's I would say do not see it as you focusing on them. That is unless you were

mimicking and ridiculing them in some offensive way. xx

[EricJones in reply to Agora1]

So others do not know I'm focused on them, or care if I am?

[Agora1 in reply to EricJones]

Precisely Eric... you're wasting your energy worrying about

people who are not even focusing on you. xx

[mizzou7016]

Pretty sure that it is more of a you thing. Hoping that other people think enough of themselves to not care about your thoughts...

[EricJones in reply to mizzou7016]

What do you mean?

[mizzou7016 in reply to EricJones]

I mean people are gonna think what they think....whether I am focusing on them or not. Just be honest with yourself and the right people will notice

[Downinil]

Hi Eric! Why do you care if others notice you?

[EricJones in reply to Downinil]

Shouldn't I care? Idk I believe that I'll be viewed incorrectly if I'm noticed incorrectly. I feel that I will be shamed for being overly attentive to others, and then that will make me more likely to be socially chastised and not accepted into the group.

[Downinil]

Eric, I’m pretty sure most if not all people are oblivious to all others unless it is their job to pass judgment.