I need someone to tell me everything is going to be okay..

[ashishere]

3 weeks ago, My big brother Scotty Got Arrested. And i know im not a little kid anymore but it hurts. I feel like im constantly thinking about him and its to the point where i cant be happy anymore. We werent even that close growing up, Now that i know hes Arrested I honestly think im going insane. As many of you know in the past, I've opened up to you guys and you were able to help me with what i was going through. And I was Really Greatful for that. But has anyone else gone through this? Or Can someone tell me im going to be okay without him?

[Dolphin14]

Hi

Is your brother in jail?

I watched my older brother go through a couple court battles. There was potential for jail sentencing and it freaked me out.

So yes, I've been there. We have no control over the court system. It will take time but you have to adjust and go back to your own life

🐬

[ashishere in reply to Dolphin14]

his case just got bound to grand jury but yes

[Dolphin14 in reply to ashishere]

I'm so sorry. Take care of yourself.

It's all in someone else's hands there's not much you can do. Support him however you can if you feel you can.

[Marysblue]

Sounds like obsessive thoughts. Just remember you can't do anything to control your brother. Try to distract yourself put on some of your favorite music or go for a walk. Sometimes writing down all your worries help. Or give yourself 10 minutes to worry about it and then be done with it for the day or put your written worries in a box and leave them there.Things will be okay and then they may get bad again and then they'll be okay again I found.