Separation

[Tulip2407]

Is it good idea to get separated for ur inner peace or you should keep trying for the kids.

[Dolphin14]

I think it's important for children to grow up in stability.

People often use the term " for the sake of the kids" If they are in a dysfunctional home there may be a long lasting impact.

Have you tried counseling?

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[Tulip2407 in reply to Dolphin14]

No and what u have been facing is not a issue for my partner he feels it's more like in creating a pathetic life for myself. For once I thought it could be my anger or anxiety or hormonal balance but as day pass I feel like he always thinks everything is going well and not ready to see that there is something missing between us.

[Dolphin14 in reply to Tulip2407]

The best thing you can do is work on yourself, for yourself.

I'm sorry things aren't going well.

[blackcat64013]

Hi,I am sorry you are experiencing a bump in your relationship.

You will not easily change another person's view of the situation. As Dolphin suggests, perhaps go to a few sessions of talking therapy. To ask for professional help means you are putting your needs first, a form of self care.

From there, the option will be to have conversation about your relationship either on your own or with a therapist, if he is willing to go.

I hope you can find the missing piece. 💜

[corgi_fan817]

Hi Tulip2407. I know how you feel. I really do. I am in the same boat. Would not mind at all sharing with you.

[Coffeeshop]

Hi. I'm in your situation right now so I completely understand. We're going the therapy route. My opinion is that you should go to therapy if you want to stay together. But then again, that's only what I think. Do you think therapy would help? Does your partner? This much I know, going to therapy is proof of commitment and that you're trying.

[corgi_fan817]

Wishing you the best Coffeeshop.