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This year seemed to start so well,

then, I started feeling severe pain from my fibro because my GP had reduced my pain relief. I think my long-term partner is beginning to suffer from dementia ( he is 78 years old, and I am 61 ). My bank was hacked, and money was taken, so now I am going through a fraud investigation to get my money back. I have to sort out my bedroom for my partner's sister coming to visit from America, and all I want to do is sit and cry. I feel useless. I don't want sympathy; I just needed to get it off my chest and maybe a kick up the butt to motivate me to do something. 😪

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Agora1

Hi Bacaloca, you came to the right place and said the right thing.

Unloading all going on in our lives at once can aggravate Fibro. I

understand because I've had it for years. Weather changes, undue

stress and pain all exacerbate the physical pain as well as the emotional.

Life may not go on as planned but Pacing yourself may help you get through

this difficult period.

I hope you get to enjoy some time with your sister-in-law's visit. Maybe

your doctor can help you with the meds to get you through.

Sending healing thoughts and a gentle hug to this invisible disorder called

Fibro. :) xx

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Arymretep

OH dear you have been through the mill, I hope this has helped to get it off you chest, we are all here for you, as a sufferer of long term fibromyalgia you have my sympathy , without all the other problems on top, my OH has nt been well lately either and as I can hardly look after myself it’s been really difficult caring for the two of us.

At least you have your visitor from America to look forward to , maybe as suggested by Agora a visit to your GP may help for a chat, sometimes we feel that we just can’t cope with anymore, but we do , we are stronger than we think, you take care 😘

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