A loser

[Lostintheworld]

I feel like a loser. I traded my dreams for money. I do a job I hate in a foreign country only for the money.

[gajh]

Hello and Welcome. I am sorry you traded your dreams for money. Maybe someday you will be able to get back to your dreams.

[Lostintheworld in reply to gajh]

Thank you, dear stranger.

[gajh in reply to Lostintheworld]

We don't have to be strangers. Do you want to talk?

[Lostintheworld in reply to gajh]

Sure.

[gajh in reply to Lostintheworld]

How did you find your way to this site?

[Lostintheworld]

Just googled "support groups".

[TyrSwimmer_Sac]

I read your post. I am in parallel, though I traded my future for Love than a career or money. Life can be cruel and in all honesty HOPE is what I am running on, that maybe just maybe something will turn out right. I try and spin it so I can go on. I think something still has you going. Here's to Hope being your driving force and you can rest on till you find some path that will work for you. I think you aren't a Loser at all. You have traveled far, you have been further than most and you can search for options to better it all. All in all You are no loser. Though despair is what you feel now. Know that it is temporary and you have support from at least me. Take comfort that you're not alone on the road. You can always message direct for some words of comfort in the dark till you see light again. Just saying cause in my heart I know the feeling of being a loser all alone in the darkness of it all.

[peacefulandcalm]

you are not a loser. You are very young too. You can stop and change your mind. Come back to your country if you want to. Do whatever you want to...you made some good money so now you are in a good position to move forwards when you want to slowly in another direction, not a loser at all. Also, you are self reflecting, so this is very good...

[Lostintheworld]

Thank you, dear peacefulandcalm.

[MaggieSylvie]

Will having the money allow you to go back and chase your dreams again?

[Lostintheworld in reply to MaggieSylvie]

Thank you, dear MaggieSylvie

[Lostintheworld]

I am not sure if I can do that.

[MaggieSylvie]

Perhaps not yet.

[PitbullLover]

You are not a loser. You are right where you need to be. Although the reason isn’t clear, I just know that it’ll come back full circle for you. Take care and may God bless you through this tough time.

[Lostintheworld in reply to PitbullLover]

I think I have f***** up big time.

[PitbullLover in reply to Lostintheworld]

Why do you say this?

[Lostintheworld]

Thank you, PitbullLover