we all deserve

[IncognitoC]

We all deserve happiness, no matter what we are suffering from. We all deserve peace. Our minds never stop working and this causes us to suffer with anxiety disorders and depression. Even if we don’t think we are deserving of that happy and peaceful life.

[Shnookie]

Thank U for the touching post. Even tho I’m feeling a little depressed now, I know I deserve happiness. Unfortunately, I also have ADHD which can cause me to procrastinate and be hypersensitive at times. To have peace in my life would be helpful as well.

[IncognitoC in reply to Shnookie]

I think we all need a little bit of encouragement every now and then

[Shnookie in reply to IncognitoC]

I know for myself, I always appreciate encouragement. That’s one of the reasons, I joined HU during COVID. I also reach out to mental health hotlines such as NAMI in the U.S. for encouragement as well.

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great post. We deserve after all our prayers to be happy positive and content but some have harder struggles - thinking of them in life as well

[litethatnevergoesout]

I agree. I’m struggling with believing I’m a burden.

[IncognitoC in reply to litethatnevergoesout]

No one is a burden!

[sabres4love in reply to litethatnevergoesout]

I feel this also.

[Turnipgirl]

I have had episodes when I have felt unworthy of help and support which is caused by being psychologically maltreated by my parents growing up and my sister in law said how that kind of behaviour towards a child is child abuse and how some people don't deserve their children if they treat them like that!

Back in June just after I had moved you would think the world had ended and the sky had come down when I said I had been crying due to the stress of moving!

Point is crying does you good and there's worse things in life than someone crying because they are stressed out!

A few days ago I came to realise how I hadnt contacted my mother for 2 months and in the 2 months she hasn't reached out to me at all to see if I'm OK but it's her loss at the end of the day!

Point is if all she does is upset me then there's no point in contacting her!

I will contact her but only in the extremely rare event that I really really have nothing better to do which I think is a fair deal!

[IncognitoC in reply to Turnipgirl]

Stay strong

I had similar experience with my mother, I made all the contact and when I stopped we lost contact with each other.

[Turnipgirl in reply to IncognitoC]

Point is its their loss at the end of it all!

[IncognitoC in reply to Turnipgirl]

I totally agree! I will say this though, don’t let it get to the point where I let it get. My mother died and I found out 3 years after she died.