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I'm not sure but i feel like I have been assaulted or am at chance of being assaulted

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See my previous post. I can't stop crying. Yeah, i mean SA

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1avidreader

Being watched in a private space is a form of assault. Your feelings are valid. I hope there is a help line or organization in your country that you can turn to with your feelings. I hope that you will be well. There are also resources on the internet that you could turn to. Hugs and best wishes!

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Against_the_current in reply to 1avidreader

Thank you. So it's an assault. I wonder who to turn to

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Bramble2000 in reply to Against_the_current

Is there a woman’s charity or even the police?

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Wakeboarder24

is there someone you can call to help?

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Against_the_current in reply to Wakeboarder24

I don't know. I live in a really weird country. I wonder who

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Wakeboarder24

can you google “sexual assault helpline Bulgaria”

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Wakeboarder24

findahelpline.com/bg/topics...

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Against_the_current in reply to Wakeboarder24

Thank you. I was crying and wanting to talk but now i feel so ashamed and shut down

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Wakeboarder24 in reply to Against_the_current

that’s probably normal

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Against_the_current in reply to Wakeboarder24

I called but it was a man who played dumb and made me feel even worse. Like "what do you mean you're being watched?"

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pamb67 in reply to Against_the_current

If uve been a assaulted it's there shame NOT YOURS

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Against_the_current in reply to pamb67

Thank you. Finally reached a nice girl and she helped a bit

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1avidreader

You did nothing wrong! No need for shame. Shame on the neighbors who were watching and then telling your landlord. They are the perverts.

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Against_the_current in reply to 1avidreader

Thank you both! Wish people in ny country understood. Will try to call

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Against_the_current in reply to 1avidreader

I called but it was a man who played dumb and made me feel even worse. Like "what do you mean you're being watched?"

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SoporRose

Trust your instincts here. Leave if you can. YOu have never felt comfortable in that room anyway.

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Against_the_current in reply to SoporRose

I know i should leave but i can't find a new place and just paid for one more month and don't have how to pay for the new place

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Tealpillow

Do you feel comfortable talking to the landlord to let him know your concerns? At a basic level most humans want to help others so I wonder if your landlord can get you a window lock or move you to a different room etc. That way you can feel safer. I’m so sorry this happened to you! I’m sending you hugs and validation 🤗

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Against_the_current in reply to Tealpillow

Thank you. Tbh i don't feel comfortable. I just want to escape

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Tealpillow in reply to Against_the_current

Totally understandable. (((Hugs)))

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Against_the_current in reply to Tealpillow

Hugss

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pamb67

What exactly happened

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