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Whenever I want to keep someone away from me or someone from staring i clench my fists. Even though I'm not angry it's my coping method of keeping people away

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Agora1

Whatever works for you. We all have our own coping skills..

Mine is to put on my headphones when waiting in an office,

sometimes the sound isn't even on lol :) xx

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Nothingnoted in reply to Agora1

I know and why we hostile work environment I use earplugs and they like to bang things even louder in the office they are worse than children

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Agora1 in reply to Nothingnoted

Good idea...I can't handle loud noises or bright lights myself.

I'm the one walking down the street with cool sunglasses lol xx

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LifeIsThePitts in reply to Agora1

My ear buds are in during all my break time at work so I'm unapproachable. Questionable behavior at best, avoidant for certain....but it's what I have to do to cope with my toxic workplace.

I'm always listening to the meditation app Insight Timer... it's the best free content BY FAR!! Solfeggio frequencies, every nature sound you could want, live podcasts, thousands of guided meditation and music with no fees.

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Dolphin14 in reply to LifeIsThePitts

Insight timer is the app I use as well. The lessons learned are phenomenal.

❤️🐬

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LifeIsThePitts in reply to Dolphin14

Heyyy 🐬💗... you're the first person I've found that uses Insight Timer⏳ Isn't it the best? I tried calm during the pandemic, but it really fell short on content. I love the live features and teachers.

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Dolphin14 in reply to LifeIsThePitts

Hi

I love it. I've been using it for years. Here are my stats I'm so proud of them

❤️🐬

Insight timer :)
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LifeIsThePitts in reply to Dolphin14

Wow! I'm a novice compared to your stats! I just love all the original composers and their music. binaural beats & different Hertz vibrations, ambient music and nature sounds are the favorites I gravitate toward. Thunderstorm ⛈️ ocean, river and rainforest cuz I have an affinity for 💦🌊 water sounds. It soothes me deeply.

I've wandered away from the guided meditation and teaching aspects of the app. Sound therapy is what I've turned this into, I guess. I used to listen to Buddhist teachings regularly. It's where I found jack Kornfield Tara brach Sharon Salzburg sad guru and many others podcasts and teachings. I should get back to you the live sessions and yoga more often.

When YouTube turned into my platform for research and videos, I lost Insight Timers educational aspect...I should revisit that. Thank you for bringing that back to my attention.

Insight Timer
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Dolphin14 in reply to LifeIsThePitts

I listen to the teachers you mentioned and have found so many more along the way. I have learned so much.

Your stats are looking good too! Look at all those stars:)

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LifeIsThePitts in reply to Dolphin14

Thank you 😊 I appreciate your support, 🐬 just going to bed. Exhausted tonight 💤

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Dolphin14 in reply to LifeIsThePitts

Good Night

😴

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Nothingnoted

Me, too. I have Ptsd

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Dolphin14

My therapist had suggested the ear buds also.

I go right to a deep breath and say " here we go again"

❤️🐬

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Nothingnoted in reply to Dolphin14

Hi Dolphin, I hope you and your family are doing well I wish you the very best, Nn

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Dolphin14 in reply to Nothingnoted

Hi Nn

Sending you a big hug

❤️🐬

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Nothingnoted in reply to Dolphin14

Thank you, Dolphin, Sending you a warm hug, Love Nn

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Dolphin14 in reply to Nothingnoted

Meet Herman

hi Nn ❤️🦔
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Hes adorable. Thank you.

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