Does anyone ever feel like people want and take more from you..

[Shanm2]

...Then you'll allow yourself to take from others. It just seems that i'm doing alot for others right now, and i know i need to make myself more of a priority just so i don't drive myself mad.

[Hidden]

You are right, you need to prioritise yourself and be prepared to say no when someone asks for something.

[Shanm2 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you

[Thankfulforhelp22]

It is great to be a giver, but you have needs that need to be met as well. Others are important but not more important than you.

I am trying to overcome feeling guilty about asking for things I want.

[Shanm2 in reply to Thankfulforhelp22]

Thank you for your words, guilt it a tricky thing to overcome but i hope that it becomes easier for you to do so, and speaking up for needing the things you want Take care!

[Hidden]

Yes I feel this every day of my life. Learn to say no more often and you’ll be surprised how others can help themselves. Prioritize who and what is important, after yourself.

[Shanm2 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you Charlotte!

[Agora1]

Hi Shanm2, some of us are givers and some takers but in the end it's all about

drawing the line when you feel overwhelmed. Step back for a moment and make

room for you. It's important, it's necessary for both your mental and physical health.

No guilt involved. xx

[Shanm2 in reply to Agora1]

Thank you Agora! As always your words really are helpful during this time ❤

[RupertBrown]

Story of my life lol. Sometimes I think I do it because it's easier than looking inward and addressing my own issues. Like a way to feel good about myself without actually working on my own happiness, if that makes sense. Good on you for recognizing what's happening, that's an important step. Hope you carry this energy forward, friend!

[Shanm2 in reply to RupertBrown]

Wow! I've never related to a post more, and with what you've written i can see that i too, perhaps do a similar thing. Thank you for your reply!