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Gerrerd’s post ‘Those were the days’ reminded me of a photo I posted on the Health and Well-being forum. How home deliveries have changed!

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MadBunny profile image
MadBunny

Yesss!

Isinatra profile image
Isinatra

lol That’s going pretty far back, R. Customer service with a genuine smile that isn’t bought. A rarity, for sure. These days you’re lucky the delivery doesn’t end up on the roof.

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toIsinatra

Hello Isinatra, I hope you’re well. He looks happy enough, but that yoke is no joke!

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Isinatra in reply toRachmaninov2

I’m ok and good to see you. 🌻

You’re right…no joke there about the yolk. Lol Ouch…but he’s still smilin’ cuz he has boulder shoulders. Common back then.

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toIsinatra

That’s good to know. 👍😊

Just looking at it makes my neck ache. 😣

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Isinatra in reply toRachmaninov2

Throw some neck spasms in there, too.

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toIsinatra

Yes, and think of the milk maids who used to carry heavy pails of milk in the same way.

Isinatra profile image
Isinatra in reply toRachmaninov2

Oh, yes…and the wooden clogs. My parents brought me a pair from Holland. No could do.

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toIsinatra

I just looked up some info. about clogs, apparently Flemish weavers brought them over to Lancashire and they became popular in the mills. But also common in Japan. The nearest I got was Scholl sandals, wooden with leather straps.

Isinatra profile image
Isinatra in reply toRachmaninov2

Interesting…mine were pure wood and unfinished on the inside. I guess thick socks would help with the wearing of them. Scholls probably had a cushion? Those milkmaids should be commended for their stamina and bravery.

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toIsinatra

You’re right, in the mills they were worn with thick socks. No, Scholls didn’t have a cushion they were shaped to fit the foot. Both men and women seemed to be tough in those days.

MadBunny profile image
MadBunny in reply toRachmaninov2

Omg I had some of those!! Exercise sandals they were called. Polished wood footbed- not good.Apparently you can still get them!

vintage scholls
Arymretep profile image
Arymretep in reply toMadBunny

Yes! I wore scholls all the time in the 70is , so comfy

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Isinatra in reply toMadBunny

I remember those! Lol Excercise, my butt.

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MadBunny in reply toIsinatra

True. They have modernised their range now to include stylish, comfortable sandals.

Isinatra profile image
Isinatra in reply toMadBunny

Scholls has maintained their quality through the years. I never could keep that style on my feet, though. Cushion is the important thing now.

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MadBunny in reply toIsinatra

And me. Comfort and cushioning these days. I wear Birkenstocks soft footbed in the Summer. I find them comfortable, although I need double straps to keep them on my feet.

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Blueruth in reply toMadBunny

I have two pair of Birkenstocks. Yesterday I saw someone wearing them with socks at the airport. I haven’t seen that in awhile. Back in the day it was birks and ll bean socks. I wouldn’t travel with them. Tevas are more comfortable and waterproof.

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MadBunny in reply toBlueruth

Haven't heard if Tevas. Will have to look them up. Skechers are my go to for comfort these days .

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Blueruth in reply toMadBunny

teva and Chaco actually. They last for years and go from beach to mountains. I bought the better pair last year and they are very squishy soft.

insider.com/guides/style/ch...

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MadBunny in reply toBlueruth

Thank you for the link x

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toMadBunny

Having problems with my feet, I am always on the lookout for comfortable shoes. I have heard of Birkenstocks, are they sandals?

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MadBunny in reply toRachmaninov2

Yes, a bit like a leather footbed version of Scholls. As I said to Blueruth, I wear Skechers trainers and sandals these days. I'm lucky that I don't need to wear formal style shoes.

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toMadBunny

Thanks, will have a look.

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Blueruth in reply toRachmaninov2

Merrill too. I wore them walking 5 hours a day and never felt sore in my feet. But really…go into a good store that tests your gait and pick comfort over look. Ask them for advice too. It is very personal as any hiker will tell you. Merrill wasn’t my favorite looking shoe but if my feet don’t hurt I don’t care.

My mother has club foot. Had to have shoes custom made her entire life…500 min every time. I value good shoes!!

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toBlueruth

That’s a very good recommendation. I agree, the days of fashionable shoes like stilettos and pointed toes have long gone. We didn’t seem to notice the discomfort when we were young.

So expensive for your mum! Agreed, I always go for quality, preferably nice soft leather. My dad worked for a leather company and told me what to look for.

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Arymretep in reply toMadBunny

I love Sketchers , and Pavers is good too

Rachmaninov2 profile image
Rachmaninov2 in reply toArymretep

I haven’t heard of Pavers.

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MadBunny in reply toArymretep

Got 8 pairs of Skechers trainers, and 3 pairs of their sandles😁

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toMadBunny

I have some Croccs and have died some insoles for comfort.

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Arymretep in reply toRachmaninov2

yes, they do clogs too , they are very much like sketchers only a bit more upmarket

Clogs?
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Rachmaninov2 in reply toArymretep

Thanks for the photo, I will take a look.

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toIsinatra

The trick was to grip with your toes.

Isinatra profile image
Isinatra in reply toRachmaninov2

Now you tell me. Lol

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toIsinatra

You could give them another go. 😄

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Isinatra in reply toRachmaninov2

If some padding could be glued in there, I could. The calves and glutes would benefit from gripping with the toes, so I take back what I said about exercise. 🙏

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toIsinatra

I think you’re right about the benefits.

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toMadBunny

I lived in mine, found them very comfortable. I had them when I was in my late teens and replaced them when the strap finally came away from the sole. Thanks for the photo.

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MadBunny in reply toRachmaninov2

I remember annoying my flatmate when I wore them indoors- they were very noisy😁

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toMadBunny

They were quite heavy weren’t they.

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MadBunny in reply toRachmaninov2

Yes.

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toMadBunny

I had a denim pair too.

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MadBunny in reply toRachmaninov2

My Geordie friend told me clog dancing is still popular in the North East youtu.be/HtESUuA2gTc

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Blueruth in reply toMadBunny

I can vouch. Contra dancing in New Hampshire and Vermont. No clogs though. Those are for show.

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toMadBunny

Just goes to show, still alive and kicking. I love the flashdance videos, so uplifting.

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MadBunny in reply toRachmaninov2

Just look at those arms though. Great workout I would have thought lol.

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toMadBunny

Yes, a real tough guy. They didn’t need gyms in those days.

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MadBunny in reply toRachmaninov2

Nope 😁

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Petrina_gmfc

I agree what you are saying

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toPetrina_gmfc

I’d love to know what’s in those baskets. 🤔Hoping you are well Petrina.

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Petrina_gmfc in reply toRachmaninov2

Not to great just now it just a stomach problems

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toPetrina_gmfc

Sorry to hear that, is your GP able to help?

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Petrina_gmfc in reply toRachmaninov2

Yes and no I attend the hospital with it I have cirrosis of the liver but I don't drink I am on strong pain killers just now for it .

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toPetrina_gmfc

I’m glad you are receiving help from the hospital, are the painkillers working well for you?

Blueruth profile image
Blueruth

women still use that technique in some societies.

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toBlueruth

I hadn’t thought of that, we have things easy in comparison.

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Blueruth in reply toRachmaninov2

I don’t think it is the worst thing. They have time to do it. We don’t because of an artificial idea about the need to work for 60 hours despite all our “time saving” tools. We have to go to larger lengths to stay physically healthy. They plus many other physical workers multi task exercise and work. No need for expensive gym memberships. Carpenters and electricians do pretty well! Oppression and poor sanitation systems is more of a problem.

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toBlueruth

You’re right, working hours are still long even though we have many labour saving devices. I read that women’s cooperatives are increasing in number which offers them some hope. I know that poor sanitation is a massive problem, ‘Water Aid’ have adverts on TV asking for donations.

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Blueruth in reply toRachmaninov2

I have heard more than once educating women is the key to raising the wealth of a society. The gates foundation had a contest to engineer a machine for sanitation. It just has to be installed. Not sure if it can work everywhere.

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toBlueruth

There is no quick fix, although the Gates Foundation seem to have taken a big step in the right direction.

Isinatra profile image
Isinatra in reply toBlueruth

Yes, people do what they have to do.

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toIsinatra

Sometimes it’s just about doing what’s necessary in order to survive. It’s easy to forget that there are people living vastly different lives to us.

Isinatra profile image
Isinatra in reply toRachmaninov2

Yes…

gerrerd profile image
gerrerd

The food was fresh and pure also. delivered with a smile. no rushing of to the next customer.

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Rachmaninov2 in reply togerrerd

No additives. The pace of life was so much slower. In some ways a better time in which to live.

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Blueruth in reply toRachmaninov2

Just observing this the other day with other transplants: part of the culture of the area I live (southwest us) is small chat with the cashier or sales clerk. “ making chili or stew? Chili of course!” On the east and west coast we don’t do that. Drove all of us crazy until we settled in.

I cannot get used to the slow overly polite driving though. Could be shot if you try sensible lane merge though!

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toBlueruth

I guess it might be annoying, especially if someone is in a hurry. On the other hand for someone who may be feeling lonely it provides a way to make a connection with another human being.

Blueruth profile image
Blueruth in reply toRachmaninov2

totally annoying! It is more about cadence. If you stay long enough in another area you can become aware. There are small communities that talk faster than New Yorkers!

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Dolphin14

On my early morning walks I still see the milk man :)

🐬

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toDolphin14

We used to have a milkman, but in the summer if you weren’t able to take it indoors soon after it was delivered it went off. We put it in the larder as we didn’t have a fridge, we also had a polystyrene container that we kept the icecream in.

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Dolphin14 in reply toRachmaninov2

Def have to get that right in. Can you tell me what a larder is?

🐬

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toDolphin14

Yes, our bungalow was built in 1936 and had a built in kitchen cupboard. The kitchen was at the back of the house and was relatively cool. The larder had a small window which opened allowing ventilation and had slatted shelves. We put bread, butter, etc. on the shelves and the milk on the floor where it was coolest. When we got our first fridge it made such a difference.

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Dolphin14 in reply toRachmaninov2

Thank you so much for taking the time to explain this.

I bet your first fridge was exciting :)

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toDolphin14

It meant we could have ice cubes for the first time and a supply of ice lollies and jubblys.

Dolphin14 profile image
Dolphin14 in reply toRachmaninov2

Yippie!! That's a big change. 🧊 I think that's an ice cube lol

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toDolphin14

I was only about 12 years old so it was great for me. That is an ice cube, it’s as cold as an ice cube outside at the moment.

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Dolphin14 in reply toRachmaninov2

I'm on an iPhone so sometimes these emoji are a bit hard to see.

Thank you for sharing that story. Everyone has history to share and I love that about being here.

Stay warm! Bundle up

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toDolphin14

I know, I’m on an iPad and I have the same problem.

It’s interesting finding out a bit about other peoples lives and cultures.

I’m nice and warm, having a quiet Sunday afternoon on the settee.

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Dolphin14 in reply toRachmaninov2

I love learning about the lives and cultures of others also.

I'm glad you are toasty and relaxing. I'm sitting with my little 🦔 and reading a book.

Enjoy the rest of your day. It was very nice to chat with you.

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toDolphin14

I’m very glad you have a hedgehog, I think they are an endangered species here. I put some special food out for them recently, it disappeared but I’m not sure if the hedgehog ate it . It could have been the fox.

Thank you, and you.

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Dolphin14 in reply toRachmaninov2

I have met a few people on HU that take care of feeding the wild hedgehogs. I have never seen hedgehogs in the wild.

Mine is a spoiled domesticated African Pigmy. If you don't mind I would like to share

Hi my name is Herman.
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Rachmaninov2 in reply toDolphin14

Thanks for sharing Dolphin, I didn’t know there were domesticated hedgehogs. Is Herman as tiny as he looks?

Bazzak profile image
Bazzak in reply toRachmaninov2

We called the room at the back with the sink and cooker the scullery back then 🤗

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toBazzak

My Nan lived in an old house in Camberwell and she had a scullery at the very back of the house. Outside was a tiny area where she kept chickens. 🙂

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Bazzak in reply toRachmaninov2

😁 we had an outside toilet and an Anderson shelter in the back garden 🤣🤗

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toBazzak

Both very useful in emergencies!

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Bazzak in reply toRachmaninov2

Yes🤣🤣🤣

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MadBunny in reply toBazzak

Tin bath in front of the fire 🤔🤗

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toMadBunny

Yes, ours was green.

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MadBunny in reply toRachmaninov2

I had to smile the other day when I heard on the news that someone was having to bath their kids in the sink due to rising energy costs. My mum always bathed us in the sink when we were little 🤗

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Bazzak in reply toMadBunny

I posted this over two years ago on PWB it has just good memories

Back in the days of tanners and bobs,

When Mothers had patience and Fathers had jobs.

When football team families wore hand me down shoes,

And T.V gave only two channels to choose.

Back in the days of three penny bits,

when schools employed nurses to search for your nits.

When snowballs were harmless; ice slides were permitted

and all of your jumpers were warm and hand knitted.

Back in the days of hot ginger beers,

when children remained so for more than six years.

When children respected what older folks said,

and pot was a thing you kept under your bed.

Back in the days of Listen with Mother,

when neighbours were friendly and talked to each other.

When cars were so rare you could play in the street.

When Doctors made house calls and Police walked the beat.

Back in the days of Milligan's Goons,

when butter was butter and songs all had tunes.

It was dumplings for dinner and trifle for tea,

and your annual break was a day by the sea.

Back in the days of Dixon's Dock Green,

Crackerjack pens and Lyons ice cream.

When children could freely wear National Health glasses,

and teachers all stood at the FRONT of their classes.

Back in the days of rocking and reeling,

when mobiles were things that you hung from the ceiling. When woodwork and pottery got taught in schools,

and everyone dreamed of a win on the pools.

Back in the days when I was a lad,

I can't help but smile for the fun that I had.

Hopscotch and roller skates; snowballs to lob.

Back in the days of tanners and bobs

🤗

MadBunny profile image
MadBunny in reply toBazzak

Oh yes. I remember that. I love that poem.' Are you sitting comfortably ?.............'

Can you finish that sentence 🤔x

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toMadBunny

then .I’ll begin. 😊

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MadBunny in reply toRachmaninov2

👍👍👍

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MadBunny in reply toRachmaninov2

youtu.be/Kxwhaks_wSMI only discovered recently ( courtesy of Classic FM of course ) that the theme tune is a classical piece 🤗

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Bazzak in reply toMadBunny

Then I'll begin 🤣 🤗

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MadBunny in reply toBazzak

🤗🤗🤗

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toBazzak

This is a lovely trip down memory lane, thank you.

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Bazzak in reply toRachmaninov2

Thank you for starting the post 🤗

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toBazzak

And thanks to Gerrerd who made the original post. 😊

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Bazzak in reply toRachmaninov2

Yes 😁

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MadBunny in reply toRachmaninov2

Yes 👍

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Arymretep in reply toRachmaninov2

ooh posh, ours was plain silver lol

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toArymretep

We had a silver one which was a bit bigger.

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Bazzak in reply toMadBunny

Yes and all the pots of water heating up on the gas cooker 🤣🤗

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MadBunny in reply toBazzak

And the kettle 😁 Mum used to boil the white laundry ( mainly nappies) in a large pot on the cooker.

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toMadBunny

Wash boards, mangles and later twin tubs for nappies.

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toRachmaninov2

Andy Pandy, The Woodentops and Bill and Ben.

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MadBunny in reply toRachmaninov2

I loved Rag, Tag and Bobtail .

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MadBunny in reply toRachmaninov2

Mum had an electric boiler , then dad claimed it for his winemaking when mum got a washing machine😁

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Arymretep in reply toMadBunny

did you have a whistling kettle?

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MadBunny in reply toArymretep

oh yes.

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Petrina_gmfc

Yes there are what about you how are you doing your self .

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toPetrina_gmfc

That’s good! Thank you for asking Petrina. I’m not great at the moment, still trying to find the right medication to deal with my conditions. But I’ve enjoyed this thread today, it has provided a welcome distraction.

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Petrina_gmfc in reply toRachmaninov2

I have a hospital appointment in the afternoon then I will meet up with my son for lunch.

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toPetrina_gmfc

I hope your appointment goes well, and that you have a lovely time seeing your son. 👍

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Petrina_gmfc in reply toRachmaninov2

I will thanks

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Petrina_gmfc in reply toRachmaninov2

Morning how are you doing hope you are well ☺️

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Petrina_gmfc

What is your plans for tomorrow then something nice 😊

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toPetrina_gmfc

GP appointment in the morning, and I will just be doing my usual pottering in the afternoon. I think the weather here is going to be sunny but very cold, and I’ll be happy with that. I hope you have an enjoyable day.

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Adlon57

Yes my milkman used to deliver my milk, via a milk float, demand failed, their farming land they had their dairy cows on, was sold, and they made millions, about two hundred houses built there in the last ten years🙄

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toAdlon57

I think you have a very good point Adlon. I found an article which describes how we will be “facing a ‘significant’ shortage of farmland by 2030.” Our growing population needs more housing but also more food, it’s finding a balance. bbc.com/news/science-enviro...

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Adlon57 in reply toRachmaninov2

It was just a turn from the old to the new, and how the 'old' made such a big profit out of it, the new houses are just up the road from me, a real eyesore🥴

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toAdlon57

Are there enough services to support the increase in the population?

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Adlon57 in reply toRachmaninov2

Not in Northern Ireland at present🥴🙄there isn't!

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Rachmaninov2 in reply toAdlon57

Typical, why am I not surprised. 🤔

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