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I'm not sure why but I feel like I'm losing it today

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I feel like I'm going crazy I don't know if it's from oversleeping or being frustrated with being single. Probably both. If you're reading this I hope you're having a good day :)

Edit:

Really feel like I want to do something crazy too like bang my head against a wall or run through a sliding glass door.

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AnxiousSilver

"I feel like I'm going crazy I don't know if it's from oversleeping or being frustrated with being single."

I know what it's like to be single when you want to be dating. I've been there, and I get it.

But I'm gonna tell you this. The harder I tried to date, the more frustrated I got when things didn't work out.

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My best long term dating relationships happened really more by chance.

In general, things just need to line up right, and most of the time it's not something that you are doing wrong, it's more of a timing thing.

Please don't beat yourself up.

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"If you're reading this I hope you're having a good day :)"

Thank you, and you too. :)

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KarateKenny in reply to AnxiousSilver

Thank you for the nice message. I don't think too much of it is being upset at myself I think it's more like being frustrated with the situation. I hope things start working out soon. It's been very hard for me to focus on other things unfortunately

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KarateKenny

Thank you I'll try. I don't know why, but I it makes me feel sad that another Christmas has passed by and I'm still single. Makes it kinda hard to enjoy the season

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Ocdwarrior

Wow this is so relatable!!! I've also been really struggling with being single. Which annoys me and then I struggle with the fact that I'm struggling with being single. 🤣 Dating and getting married is a big dream of mine, which hasn't happened yet, so part of me is afraid it never will. I hate that I'm so obsessed with it tho, cause seriously I want nothing more than to enjoy each season of my life, single or otherwise. I think what AnxiousSilver said is really wise tho. I've watched a friend who seems to be desperate move from interest in one girl to the next and keep hurting himself. And I know I don't want that. When I get into a relationship I want it to be because I am genuinely interested in them and feel they would add to my life, not because I'm desperate to not be alone and need validation.

And when I honestly stop and think about it, being in a relationship isn't going to fix all my issues and suddenly make me completely happy. No human can do that for me. I have to do that for myself.

Anyway excuse the rant 😑 it was just so good to hear I'm not alone in this struggle!! Merry Christmas!

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KarateKenny in reply to Ocdwarrior

Yeah for sure. It's nice to here see other people in similar situations. Idk though about anything though I'm just really unhappy. Have a good Christmas :)

I'm certain that if you bang your head once, you won't want to do it again. And the sliding glass door would be a mess of epic proportions. I mean, first, you've gotta get it together after seriously injuring yourself, then you gotta clean up all that glass!

You know what, why don't you just go for a jog or something.

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I want to die

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