Girl hasn't texted me back and I've been feeling super anxious and depressed UPDATE

[KarateKenny]

It's been over a day since I messaged her and I'm feeling so horrible. She hasn't said anything and I don't think she ever will. I can't handle it stuff like this won't stop happening to me 😖

[Hidden]

Awww, I feel your pain. For some reason I am finding this rather funny but I’m sure this isn’t funny to you. You seem to be very frustrated. It’s kind of crazy how so many people just send texts back and forth to each other. Like no one really has the time to have an actual conversation on the phone. Come on people, you’re not THAT busy!!!

[KarateKenny in reply to Hidden]

Yeah it definitely isn't funny. It makes me feel awful

[Hidden in reply to KarateKenny]

There are many other women out there. Don’t let it get you down that she seems to be blowing you off. Just look elsewhere.

[just_keep_swimming]

do you know anything else about her ? Is it stalkerish to just “coincidentally” be somewhere she may be ?

[KarateKenny in reply to just_keep_swimming]

I don't know too much about her. Definitely a good chance I'll see her again but I don't know for sure

[Raggedy-Ann]

Hey KK, people say they will call or text but don't. They don't want to say no to your face. It will happen again, so let roll off . I know it hurts but try not to think about it too much. It is rude.

[KarateKenny in reply to Raggedy-Ann]

It just really upsets me. I would have been sad if she said no but it just makes me feel completely awful and hopeless when stuff like this happens. It's just been so hard for me. I haven't even been able to go on a date with anyone yet

[Blueruth in reply to KarateKenny]

RA is spot on. The more you fixate about that first one the harder it is. Do things you enjoy. You probably don’t even know what you enjoy doing so try different things.

[Hidden]

Well without knowing what you said or the context of your relationship, I can't know why she didn't respond, but I do know that shooting your shot takes courage 💪 Good on you man!

[DodgeDhanda]

Hi KK .If ur reacting as U are over a text .

Then a suggestion forget about getting a girlfriend & work on U & ur needs , if U choose to ignore the anxiety then guess what's going to always get in ur way & stop U achieving what U want in life.

Now it's entirely up to U what U choose to do with ur life but there will be plenty that would like U to put U before anyone else for now & when ur able to be in command of ur life then the girls will come rushing at U but U need to put in the hsrd work first

[Southern_Man]

Hey Kenny, I know exactly how you feel. I use to be the same way when I went out with someone I liked (sometimes maybe I still am). But I found out that I naturally have an attachment-type personality. I’m no expert on it but I think personally, I would invest a lot early on to fill a gap in my own life.

But DodgeDanda is right - I had to start focusing on my needs and learn to be comfortable with myself. It isn’t always easy but just takes practice. Don’t give up and don’t let this get you down - just do some things for you!