I've been feeling really great the past 6 months but I got hit with a wave of deep sadness today and it's wrapped around me like a Venus fly trap. I tried every DBT trick I know but I'm sitting here on the couch, feeling like I don't want to do anything.
This is the first time I've lived on my own in over 35 years and I find that having these feelings now feels heavier then when I lived with someone. Of course the type of relationships I used have I'd loose myself and get all my validation from the other person which never panned out very well. I have been learning to love myself, as corner as that sounds), over this past year in a way I never thought possible and I'm grateful for that. At the same time I feel frustrated at always ending up back in this hole.
I see a psychotherapist every two weeks and I was in two online DBT groups which I got a lot out of - I just finished the program so I no longer go which is what brought me here looking for any online (over Zoom) groups that I might be able to attend. If there's one happening tonight somewhere I'd love to go.
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It's great advice and in fact it's been grey out for a few days now so that might be having an impact. Thank you and it's good to be part of the group.
You might check out ACT Therapy, I found it helpful for learning to investigate my emotions, welcome all of them and be able to get in touch with them and process them. It made a lot of sense to me when I learned that it's our resistance to them that causes our pain and dilemma.
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