I NEED ME TO GET BETTER

[destroymydemons]

I come here seeking support & words of advice in order to.... HELP ME CHANGE THE DIRECTION OF MY JOURNEY. I'VE COME TO A POINT WHERE I ACKNOWLEDGE THAT I CAN'T DO IT BY MYSELF ANY LONGER. I'M DESTROYING MY MARRIAGE . WIFEY IS BEYOND FED UP. I PRAY IT'S NOT TO LATE.

[just_keep_swimming]

you can get words of wisdom , advice and help here . What is causing your marriage to fall apart ?

[destroymydemons in reply to just_keep_swimming]

The fact that I don't speak to anyone about my feelings in depth.

[just_keep_swimming in reply to destroymydemons]

well you can speak to me about it or other members on this forum about it I am always open ears .

[destroymydemons in reply to just_keep_swimming]

Thank you.

[Nothingnoted]

Please dont be so hard on yourself. Its hard when you have to deal with struggles we go through. I feel sorry for my sister a lot Im hard to deal with a lot. We are here for you.

[destroymydemons in reply to Nothingnoted]

Thank you.

[designguy]

Are you seeing a therapist, if not it sounds like you would benefit from it. It takes courage to go but it is definitely worth it. There are so many things that happened to us especially at an early formative age that most of us were never taught the skills or understanding about how to deal with and therapy can be of great benefit in uncovering and helping you understand and deal with to be a better you. You might also consider couples therapy for your marriage.

[destroymydemons in reply to designguy]

I'm seeking a therapist now. It's definitely a decision I had to make in order to keep my wife, or maybe to HELP ME DMD.🤷🏾‍♂️

[designguy in reply to destroymydemons]

Good for you, it takes courage and you did it!

[destroymydemons in reply to designguy]

Thank you.

[Shysteve]

hi I'm Steve,well done on taking that ominous feeling first step,I myself have just signed up her about a fortnight ago and the welcome from these guys is amazing,been said before but if you need to talk,just send a message,I'm currently experiencing relationship trouble too,in and around the same sort of areas as your good self,best wishes Steve

[destroymydemons in reply to Shysteve]

Thank you.

[Agora1]

Hi...unless we address our feelings, our emotions will get the best of us which in turn

affects loved ones and friends. You did the right thing in taking that difficult first step

in seeing a therapist. It is their expertise and professionalism that can help put you on

the right path as well as find ways to address those demons.

This forum can help guide you as well in sharing our own experiences with mental health

issues. This virtual family of friends helps us not feel so alone in our struggle. I'm happy

to Welcome you to this amazing site. xx

[destroymydemons in reply to Agora1]

Thanks.

[Scarlett28]

Welcome DMD👋. I can relate.

I internalize my emotions so no one really knows I’m struggling. I am just discovering at age 50 that childhood emotional neglect has affected me more than I thought. My only coping skills are to avoid & isolate.

I find comfort here knowing we are not alone. I wish you well.