WorriedAboutMySister

[Against_the_current]

She has 2 exams Tommorrow and called me and we talked 2 hours but i feel like i only Wasted her time and learned nothing. I'm scared she won't do good on her exams and will be sad. I don't want her to feel any pain. Espessially because of me. And because my brain is foggy. She asks a question about Studies and i can't even proceed it. I Wasted her time. I'm scared of her getting a mental illness like me. We talked, it made me scared and triggered, but at least she could take it out. I'm just getting triggered by any interaction with my family. My brain stops working. But my sister needs me. And i'm gonna feel so bad If she fails because of me. I was taking a nap when she called. I'm really tired. I was just Laying like 5 hours ago, not doing anything because i can't proceed, and i fell asleep and i woke up by her calling to help her with homework

[Celtic27]

Hi there dont think you are letting your sister down your doing your best you can and the fact you have problems your self dont stress about this to much or you will magnify your own problems and then you will feel worse ! You can help uour sister revise for her exams but only she can do well in them i wish her good luck and hopes she does well 💖

[Against_the_current in reply to Celtic27]

Thanks 💖

[Hidden]

It’s great that you care about your sister, but take care of yourself!!! You can only do so much. Maybe she could get another classmate or a tutor to help her with what she is struggling with. You need to pay attention to your own studies. I know you’re trying to be a good big sister, but you can’t always be there to help her.

[Against_the_current in reply to Hidden]

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[Hidden in reply to Against_the_current]

You can’t help her with everything. She needs to learn things on her own.

[Against_the_current in reply to Hidden]

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[Hidden in reply to Against_the_current]

Take one day at a time sweetheart. How was yoga? I like doing yoga. I’m not super flexible but I enjoy it. It helps my back not to be so stiff.

[Against_the_current in reply to Hidden]

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[Genuineguy]

You have a got a big heart to care so much about your sister. And Im sure she knows you are there for hher and care, otherwise she wouldn't get in touch and talk to you. It sounds like she needed to feel listened to and you gave her that. You are a caring sister.

Remember, you need care too. You havent done anything wrong. And your family's problems arent your fault. You are doing your best and that is enough. Like Googoodolls said please dont forget to care for yourself.

[Against_the_current in reply to Genuineguy]

Thanks ❤️