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my favorite uncle is dying at a hospital right now. I just got a text from my aunt. I am praying just Incase that could help him. He’s such a beautiful person and it sucks that he’s suffering. I’m super anxious now. Everything seems wrong and tainted right now. I feel so sick to my stomach.

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Lve2dance

I'm praying for you 🙏

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Starrlight in reply to Lve2dance

Thank you Lve2dance ❤️

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Lve2dance in reply to Starrlight

😁

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Hb2003

oh my gosh i am so sorry 😕😔 lots of hugs and support ❤️ Your not alone

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Starrlight in reply to Hb2003

thank you Hiba it helps that I have you guys here ❤️

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AnxiousSilver

I'm so sorry Starrlight.

I am praying for you and your uncle right now.

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Starrlight in reply to AnxiousSilver

Thank you my friend ❤️ it means so much to me.

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AnxiousSilver in reply to Starrlight

((((((Starrlight)))))

I hope that helps a little.

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Starrlight in reply to AnxiousSilver

yes (((((((((Silver))))))))) thank you

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Starrlight in reply to AnxiousSilver

It feels good to take this time to cry a bit.

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AnxiousSilver in reply to Starrlight

I know, and I've been doing a lot of that lately.

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Starrlight in reply to AnxiousSilver

Yes. How are you doing tonight?

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AnxiousSilver in reply to Starrlight

Just trying to hang in there and be supportive to anyone. (which includes this community, especially the regulars here)

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Starrlight in reply to AnxiousSilver

U R Awe.Some.

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AnxiousSilver in reply to Starrlight

No, you are. (actually of you are)

BTW, please check your PM.

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Starrlight

I know death is a part of life and it’s the only thing we can count on but it’s so hard to deal with it makes me ponder God and heaven and angels all that good stuff it’s stressful though as I don’t know what is for real I don’t pretend to know exactly what happens when we die and where we go to

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Dolphin14 in reply to Starrlight

That unknown feeling must be very hard to deal with. If you have a certain faith and belief I guess you follow that? My sister believed in heaven so I just went with her belief and what I knew about it. She believed it was a place of peace so I listened to her to help ease her way.

❤️🐬

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CindyKatherine in reply to Starrlight

Well, truly, to pretend to believe we know what exactly happened when we die is to wallow in self-deception. But, I have come to believe with my study that when we die we wait for the resurrection to go to heaven. I see no meaning in this life without the hope of the resurrection. That we were born, live, achieved (even all the good things), grow old or while young, and die? That is the essence of meaninglessness to me. There must and should be something better—a resurrection of the righteous dead. This has been a major support for me when I lose someone dear (like my dad).

Just my thought 😊

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NoRegret

Condolences and love sent your way Starrlight!

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Starrlight in reply to NoRegret

Thank you so much ❤️

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desertraindrops

Oh Starrlight, I'm so sorry to hear this. I am praying that your precious Uncle will not be in pain or suffer. And that peace will encompass him, your Aunt, you, and everyone who loves him. No fear, just peace. Sending you warm hugs, and much love...💜

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Starrlight in reply to desertraindrops

I just felt some peace as I read your message. (((((((((((((((((((((((Desertraindrops))))))))))))))))))))))

❤️

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Anon0mus

praying for you and your uncle as well!

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Starrlight in reply to Anon0mus

Thank you Anon0mus! ❤️

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Hope4me1

It’s so hard when you have to deal with loss of a family member. I’m so sorry, Starrlight. You and your uncle are in my prayers. We are all here to support you. Hoping your anxiety eases with acceptance. Sending you peace 🕊🙏🏼

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Starrlight in reply to Hope4me1

Thank you Hope. Acceptance yes I am there. I think it must be so hard for my aunt and cousins. My heart hurts for them. I think I’ll get some rest. Thanks for sending peace. ☮️

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desertraindrops

I'm so thankful. Just breathe in peace, and exhale fear and anxiety. If you need to talk, please message me. I'm usually up all night. Remember you are loved, and we are all here for you. 💜

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Starrlight in reply to desertraindrops

Smart to breathe in peace and out with junk. Thanks ❤️ I feel a lot of love and peace 😊

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melbrown

My heart goes out to you & your family. Will keep you guys in my thoughts. 💗🕊🫂

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Starrlight in reply to melbrown

Thank you, beautiful friend. ❤️

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Nothing_but-pain

Starrlight I'm so sorry this is happening. You know you are cared for here.

Your anxiety and sickness will leave in time, and love will remain. May you come through this trial safe and strong.

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Starrlight in reply to Nothing_but-pain

You are amazing, beautiful 😍 You really reminded me at least I have love and the trials do end.

❤️

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redrabbitniner

peace and love to you.

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Starrlight in reply to redrabbitniner

thanks, you too Redrabbitniber. ❤️

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Dolphin14

My thoughts are with you. This is a very difficult time and hard to stay grounded with something like this going on.

We are all here for you.

❤️🐬

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Starrlight in reply to Dolphin14

Thank you sweet 🐬 friend. I’m struggling so badly feeling uncomfortable in my skin on top of my uncles death. ❤️ ⭐️

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c-mac

i'm so sorry, starrlight. May you and he both find healing and peace.

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Starrlight in reply to c-mac

Thank you. That sounds perfect. I’m trying to find that. ❤️

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CindyKatherine

Hello, Starrlight, you are indeed a lightning star in this community. It is my prayer that God hears your and all our prayers offered on behalf of your uncle. This type of situation can be indeed stressful, but, keep faith alive and be hopeful.

Piece! ❤

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Starrlight in reply to CindyKatherine

Thank you CindyKatherine. I’m so grateful that after every difficulty comes ease. Waiting for less pain ❤️

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CindyKatherine in reply to Starrlight

You are welcome 😊

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primrose81

Bless you Starrlight, I am thinking of you and your family and sending virtual hugs across the ocean to you xx

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Starrlight in reply to primrose81

Beautiful thought Primrose! Thank you so!!!!! ❤️

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Googoodollsfan

Hello. I’m hoping and praying that whether he passes away or not, he will be at peace.

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Starrlight in reply to Googoodollsfan

Hi GDF He passed this morning. My Aunt has all three of her young adult children by her side so that’s a positive. ❤️

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Googoodollsfan in reply to Starrlight

I’m so sorry. He’s in heaven now watching over you.

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Starrlight in reply to Googoodollsfan

I hope so.

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desertraindrops

My deepest condolences, Starrlight. I'm still praying for all of you, and will continue to. What a blessing to be surrounded by people who love you, when it's your time. Praying for comfort, healing, and peace. Big hugs...🤍

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Starrlight in reply to desertraindrops

Thank you Desertraindrops. ((((((((((Hug backatchya))))))))))))) I feel comforted and at this moment and I will remember this exists as I heal. ❤️

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Stippler

Sending prayers to you and your uncle and family.🙏🙏🙏

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