Coaching misunderstood

Having coached allllllllll levels all ages for 45 years - people have NOOO concept of how personal coaching is..

they have to get up

to the lesson

prepare

and are presenting and taking a risk

that they aren t going to fail u or get mauled

i know that...

not easy riding for someone as senior as me...i see everything.....like a master dancer choreographer not one year.......yeeeeeeeeeeeeears....i know ..how to develop...any rider anyhorse any problem...

it takes tons..of guts just to ride and take a lesson.

its the tone and app;roach of the instructor that5 makes or destroys the student.....most coaches forgtt tha5

most people long for acceptance and to please..most instrucrors forget this

i dont care........what insecurities or flaws or problems u think....u have....thats a universal terror of lessons.....til u find the right coach.......who knows u better.....than urself.....

the student is consumed with his or her faults failures and intropsection

we coaches want to brain u.....ur not out stealing cars...ur not out selling drugs to foreign countries to be rediculous....

we die.........if u.....the supp;osed ly flawed or inseure or scared or depressed....if u dont show

we look forwarde........to ur lessons............find out where u are and our responsigli5y to mke sure ur learnindt and getting ur moneys worth......liek wowrking with a golf pro.........its personal

each working on diff things.......we dont care if u begginer or not....we dont care if ur scared or not.....

hey Fred!!!! great to see u..how biz this week......oh the putting going?

God....get over this bs about anxiety imperfction and go live ......

ohtherwise..........we play golf or x y z alone.........

hey joe....how ]s it going? terrible...no students..had a rash of we have to be perfect or whatever sweep through or we cant take lessons cuz we have flaws...or my hair isnt perfect or

oh man that sh8t again.....when are these peop;le going to understand......everyone starts with jello as i lke to tell my students......

hey thats a great one.......boy the echo around here...used to have tons of people till the smucks came in and 5his disorder and that disorfer...blue eye disorder and brown eye disroder and one shouler imperfect disorder make these peop;le soooo self conscous.....ooh im anxioius oooh i have depression no one can like me.....when wil they get it through their heads......everyone is human...

i dont know pal i dont know......we could have sooo much fun.....nope.....oooh i hafve one leg too short5 ooo am bald have to see my therpist.......grab a frikn hat and lets go man..

first one to the golf carts is a rotten egg

ur on.....grabbing my walker and ill be flying

ya man....its all how ya see things.........

amen bro amen....lets go man........

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find a passion apologize to no one be it ur flwrs or whatever..something that fires u up an makes u want to spit in the face of dep;ression ...a cause whatever........tell depression to go on holliday perm....ignore this universal nerves and lets goooo....do not label urself .....cuz .....we arent (not saying people dont suffer from depression im not saying that or anxiety...find people who dont make it worse.....endlessluy tallking about it.....action is the word...let doooooo someting...

[Midori]

Heck, yes! I'd love to ride again, but I can now only ride sidesaddle, and I haven't even done that for around 20 years!

Just being around horses and dogs is healing though.

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A men.......thank u for understanding....sometimes my posts are so emotional im sure hard to fig what im saying...just so sad people have dreams and cut off due to concerns we instructors know is just part of being human.....just like us....The skiiing instructors are brilliant.....practice falling down in the snow and making light of it.....brilliant brillaint brilliant...

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Meant NOOOOO disrespect

to suffering people go through with anxiety and depression

such is the human condition

no one shlud be judged....or labeled is the main point

apologize if i insulrt or hurt anyone.....