Food for thought. ((Suicide trigger warning))

[Survivor1687]

Just imagine if someone ended up taking their life because a certain group of people who decided they were going to target and or gang up on someone. Or pose as strangers on a site but were really people you knew who've been doing this to you for a long time. And was one of the reasons you came to this site for support?? Or what if this group of people were purposely doing this to try to force someone to leave somewhere they tried coming for support or because they wanted to silence someone? Because these people didn't understand or know what someone was really going through? Or because a clique or an opinion or passing judgement was more valuable and or of more importance than a human life?? What if that person is me??? What if that person is you??? or your loved one?? or friend? This hits reallytoo close to home for me for several reasons I don't feel comfortable disclosing at this point in time. I am unsure of how I truly feel about being here at this point in time. I must take a break and try to process things.

[Dolphin14]

Please Survivor:

Don't give someone the power to hurt you that way. I know it's easier said than done.

Please break if you need to gather your thoughts. Remember there are good people here too.

I'm sorry you are hurting

❤️🐬

[AnxiousSilver]

Survivor1687,

Let me ask you a simple question. (and please don't say any names here)

Have you met ANYONE on this site (male or female) that you believe that you can trust?

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If so, please reach out to that person in the PM, and ignore the main board if you need a break. (until you are comfortable with being on the main board again)

[hypercat54]

Yes I agree with the others Survivor. There are far more good kind people on here than bullies. Don't let the nay says get to you please.

I know this is hard when you are already struggling, but maybe take a short break and come back to us when you are ready.

[Starrlight]

Survivor you are brave for reaching out and telling the truth about what has been happening to you. I agree there are so many good people here ready to give you a safe place to have a voice. I hope you keep reaching out and know my pm is always open for you my friend, anytime, you’ve got me to talk to.

[LilyAnnepuppy]

I’m here for you. Feel to reach out am PM me

[Dolphin14]

Survivor

Are you there? We are concerned about you.

❤️🐬

[Survivor1687]

I don't feel safe sharing here at this point in time.

[Dolphin14 in reply to Survivor1687]

You do what you need to do. ❤️🐬

[fauxartist in reply to Survivor1687]

me either...

[Survivor1687]

This is not about wanting to feel included. I'm sorry but I absolutely do not want to be included in any of the behaviors mentioned in my above post.

[b1b1b1 in reply to Survivor1687]

I am sorry that this has happened to you. You can also PM me at any time. x

[Tara52]

I have felt safe here. I am sorry for all the cruel people who are bothering you. I will be praying for you!😘 Recently someone told me about a prayer called " God make me a target out of range". I believe it helps. I have been less bothered by people when I remember to pray it.😇 We have to keep our spiritual armor on everyday. Try not to be reactive but be kind.😍

[Survivor1687 in reply to Tara52]

Thank you🌹🙏 ((hugs)) I need to be reminded of these things sometimes.