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ur missed more than u know.......even when .....u dont know it....(last post i promise)

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youtu.be/CICIOJqEb5c

just because some of us

cant put things into words.......

doesnt mean.....ur not missed.....

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(utube music- bill mathis ...aint no sunshine when shes gone....tune

really good - music

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(us guys........ya......we never ever eve ever miss our neigbhors .........nope..........ya right sure.........were just inept at waht to say..................see ......? take care........ohh.....ah ur neibhor called and said .....how long are u going to tie her up Brig.........we need her back here..........)

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Great song.

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songs say it better than i can.....yep we never ever miss nobody............ya ......right)

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funny how u cant tell people but...............then it hits u.......what if bob and sally move away? ....what if so and so.....what if something happend to them.............)

(be fun to be an independent investigator and ask people to honestly rate or critique their boss or employement or whatever......role play even more fun but that will never happen.....skits are fun about such matters.....even better when our bosses or doctors have to walk in our shoes for three months.....should be required....in training....

how can i tell a guy what its like to come out of some of these barrios.....or where ganga are the norm.....then u get some moralist mhs people and its like.....obvoulsy u have no idea what goes on.....- its all a big boy network or doctor network condesnceing about stuff they konw nothting about tr yto repogram people to tehir world...........im a rural and woodsam horsemn not some walking regrig.

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what bizarro notion that someone who raises flowers doesnt know plant phyisology or so and so is just a farmer or shes just a goat person or well he just raises chickens.....or sally just paints cars.....huh? i cant even begin to wrap my brain arond such an attitude that many doctors have.....how bizarro.........thanks for listening sorry to vent

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TrustYourSoul

I admit that I am struggling to understand your posts. In a simple response, what is the main issue that people can help support you with?

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Brig has many good thoughts. His style of writing is just different from others.

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its obtuse as im in a rush to say thngs before im arrested for whatever comp;laint my mean neibhrs who hate men can think of.......they have so many phobias........i have to walk 100 yeards around the house or they call im a stalker..........on my way to work......cleaning up my landlr place by hand for free)

yes my writing is not focused or formal.....my bad....i write like a sp play script my bad

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It's not a bad thing Brig. We all have different writing styles. You have great messages.

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got triggered when i read peoples hardships......kills me....and

i may have to split from where im staying.......toxic people....i may need to leave soon and find a hole in the woods......so say this before stuff happens....

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I'm sorry to hear you may have to move. You are very sensitive to other people. Nice quality

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did i ever tell u

about the legends

of the dolphins

in anceitn greek times.........their legacy

did i ever tell uabot the icons of nursing........he Nam nurses.....

great story......

their legacy carreis on......in some peop;le....

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Yes:) nurses and flipper. Great combo

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shoot me if i post again.....bad idea...

cant believ how boring america is....not teaching ;peo;ple how to believe in themselves....get ex;pereince.....its all how do u feel....

so they talk endlessly about their feelngs.....fine...

all go away the more they prepare or rehearse...or practice....

oooh well.....

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Good mentors build people up.

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amen

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taught a miion scared people.......many subjects areas.........why.....make learnig

hard.......life is scary ......enough....

we all know

t

all thng relative

for that person.......just asking question may be a mountain....adn they are comp;aring themselves to others been aroudn long time all secure and confidnt and adavamced..

not realizing......i know.....how much guts it tok for this person

to ask abou t lessons or a question in physiolougy or

how use a hand saw.......

we all know........chanllenge and etc is relative....nothign worse than feelingt

stup;id....

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god.....these people are soo far above me......should i quit now or god i had nooo idea how scary this was going to be.....this is my dream but....whoa...wonder if anyone else feels this stupid or just me....hope nobody notices.....darn.......dropped my book...going to look like a fool......older student what was i thinkkng....wonder if jeremy made the bus.....did i turn off the water before i lef?

yep.....tough......being a student......not easy.....sypathize....for sure

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can u imagine how hard it is .....for her.....just to come to the lesson or job or school.....

wonder if that impacts her learning ? .....(worrying about her son has the flu and did sally get her assinment in ok) ....

blows ur mind.........what people endure.......what appears to be simple to some

first day coming to the barn...learning how to brush horses....

not..............easy......

(wonder if hes really this nice or is he going to yell at me if i cant use thebrush right.....or will he get mad ...next week.......think i ll get a tough horse or will he like me or bite me........what if he steps on my foot....)

sooo wish......i had a magic wand........make learnig instant......no sresss ...woudnt that be fun......

i know....im colorful and long winded) sorry....

help support the new people devistated by stupid clinicians who tell them diagnosis without counseling them about the other 99 percent of them

help new people dismiss or ignore moronic counselorss or doctors who label or pigeonhole people as menally ill

hang all doctors and people who constatntly talk to people about their mental illness rather than who they are or listen or be a pal and chat about life and how the salad was great just liek anyone else

remind morons that cancer was once a huge stigma when everhone thogth it was constagious

remind everone that once being a chinese person was beint a chink or N person or whap or

or a pig v a polide oifficer and peop;le who suffer from depression or anxiety dont need to be labeled by antimqated thnking but taught or reminded to find the niche tath suits them just liek a senstie horse doenst need to be chanted to a plow horse but put where they excell and doestn help; the anxous horse to be labeled and told ya but really u should be more secure or more liek .....but doc......they are a rade horse......

accept peoples nature for who they are.....put peopel personaltity into the right niche.....rather than keep trying to change peole into what they shoulkd be.......

linremind new people to ignore the crrics or the peoel who dont liek them like the ugly dcuk or dumbo

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stop telling a short person they should be tall.....tehyare perfect as a jockey....

stop....telnt p;eoel what they arent.....and the stuod of mental illness....

suport them listen to them and help them conenct to siuations wher they can feel accdpted and usrful....ath wil chang etheir self image and the anxiet willgo away

not everoen can be the super hero or the whatever.......so what.....the introert is an awesme musician or scientist......adn may be soem men want glamor grisl but others......oh no......welove the nerd....

stop teh needless torture......no one woudl want me.....im just an ugly super brainy nerd gril

u dont knowthat at al...........

i hear this stupid stuff all the time

no one wants a grilliek me ...models are tall and lontg legs.....or have fat lips or orro

huh?

as teadhers we ignore all this stupid stuff - buld on what peole can .....not what they are t and stop dwelling on mionro problems they thinks are major.......they grow through it wth exereince

is shout dtop reading and stop; posting.....all this needless p;ointles selr torture

for what?

sorry for my posts......just grab these kids and peopel and love the hell out of them while i throw thier dodtor out the window.........no one needs labels......concnetratre on doing and achievintg ......not omg i havfe a grey hair disorder.....or i have a wrinkle.....or or

good greif.......what about rthe other 9999999 percent of what that person is.....

ill stop...

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much of riding is lke modeling on horses.....those who are build like twigs.....are in....those who have short legs or thicker.....dont get looked at

however.........effectively...............those people can compete in areas such as show jump;oin where the outer appearance doesnt matter.....what matters is their feel

fi

cerrtain careers and familes focus on expectations......the outer person v the inner

or someone is rejected because they are senstive or not a doctor.....but a heck of muscian

or they are anziotu ro senstive.....really bad......but not in this field........

the ugly ducking story or dumbo story.....

same dif...........help; them find their place......where they are valued what they are not what they arent

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tellng people they are disabled or sick is the most antiaquated thinking known.....people in wheelchairs go fishing all the time....til doctors or idtiot tell them they are sick........

he was happy fishing.......til the doctors came in .........

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