Hello all, i hope everyone is well. Ive posted on Health Unlocked before but about a different symptom.
Ive been depressed now for a long time because ive gone through a lot in the past, but just recently i lost my long time partner as i found out she had been messing about on the internet with other men, she left as she found it more interesting. All throughout the relationship ive had nothing but stress and her being funny over the least thing. Only thing is when we met i was flattered and found myself very attracted to her and became attached and fell in love quickly, which i have still kept up since day 1, where as she has messed me about, been very unreasonable, pleases herself what she does and when she does it, yet if im 10 mins late from shopping i got the third degree. I got talking on another forum and they mentioned she could be narcissistic i did some research and it very much looks that way. I want to break the bond as i know i would be better off, but i havent done nothing wrong and cant live with the fact ive been used and abused for years, i just put it down to her moods, now i know why i never got much love or complement like i gave her every day. Ive put 110% in , and its killing me not knowing why shes gone every day i open my eyes straight away its there. What makes things worse is ive just been diagnosed with an illness called "Myasthenia Gravis" i have the generalised one which incudes every ailment, not long got it and coming to terms with that is hard enough, ive been housebound since , and now this. I just dont know how to cope and deal with life. I live alone, have no family as they all passed away all very quickly within a short time , my nan, mum, dad and younger brother, i felt my life was not worth living then, i have one daughter who i dont see a lot as she is poorly as well, so im isolated and finding it hard to get away from these demons. Ive had people say to start loving myself but dont know how to, but i know how to love others.. With all the other illness i suffer sometimes i feel i would be better off not here and being a burden. I dont have any proper councilling apart from paying mind to have a hour a week. I just have nothing , lost all interest in everything, and too panicky to even pick the phone up sometimes
Have any of you lovely kind people any thoughts of how i can get through this and get this lady out of my mind as i know she has messed about before and know she wont stop and i cant handle it no more, specially when ive done everything for her, even neglected my daughter as to spend time with her and she was the only person i looked forward to seeing and now shes gone. Even when i nearly died she never even phoned to see how i was all week , then i was bed ridden all week she kept away and my daughter and son in law had to come and look after me, but i wanted her. It feels like my heart is being ripped out and im being tortured every day with emotional and physical pain 24/7 .
Sorry for the long vague post but im in a state already and soon wont be able to function properly because of it.
Please if you could give a few tips what i could do i would be eternally grateful
Thank you for reading and i hope you all stay safe and take care x