Mom and Grandma think only they are humans

[Against_the_current]

Sister's birthday is thursday. So i finally called my granma and this inconsiderate old person said she's coming Tommorrow. Sis birthday is the day after Tommorrow. SHE SPOKE IT WITH MOM. Even though i asked her to call me first. Dad won't want to come If Grandma's here. Mom and Grandma are inconsiderate selfish beings. My sister has a birthday, not them. And Grandma was "ew i'm tired, ew i have work, ew i have doctors". Then don't Come. And she made it to be comfortable for her not for us, because If we even dare to speak up, they won't understand, they're gonna give us to dad. Apparently for mom her mom is more important than her kids. They think only they are tired because they have to work with people and they hate people. We have to make compromises for them but If we even dare to speak, we're out. They're psychopaths - they can't realise others have feelings too. And If we say it, we're out. Sis said she's just gonna accept whatever and just go apathetic. I Wonder If i should just accept it too. If i speak these old i consider ate rudes are only getting grumpier and aren't gonna understand. It's not my fault they're old and they hate everything and everyone. They passing trauma. Dear mom and Grandma, i hate uuuuuu. You messed my mental health and are gonna do same with sis. She's the only good person in this damn family. She deserves more and even straingers on the Internet understand it but no my own family. I'm sorry for my language. Dear moderators please don't take it down. Please. And mom doesn't care she's passing trauma and i can't function. Just as she can't function.

No, don't tell me they're in pain, they already described it in detail

I hope dad comes

[coolkitty1934]

sadly i understand that feeling as well..family is not always a good thing they dont understand what others are going through and it hurts even more sometimes when you see that your siblings will suffer just like you did.That feeling of frustration at not being able to express how you feel because you know what their reaction will be its stressful and mentally draining.

[coolkitty1934 in reply to coolkitty1934]

the best thing you can do for now is to stick with your sister because sometimes you only have each other and of course try and make her birthday special if you show your sister that you care then it could help her feel better even if only a little bit.Maybe find a funny happy birthday song on youtube to play and make a card for her!Let her know that even if her mom and grandma dont seem to care she will have you

[Against_the_current in reply to coolkitty1934]

Exactly. Said it better than me. I can't articulate myself and people think i'm just overreacting while it's really painful and i just can't express it with all those emotions and in English. Basically in any language. Hope i find strenght in myself to keep myself and her through this. Thank you

[coolkitty1934 in reply to Against_the_current]

glad to help im always here if you need me UwU

[Against_the_current in reply to coolkitty1934]

Tyy meow ^^

[fauxartist]

Just food for thought... have you thought of celebrating your sister's birthday just with her on some designated day with your grandmother and mother are not there to intervene. And just avoid going to this dysfunction all together?

[Against_the_current in reply to fauxartist]

I tried to but couldn't. I said only we two, only we two and dad but noo granma has to come