My head hurts

[BrownEyesBlue]

I’ve been having headaches a lot lately. It’s affecting my eyesight and I’m finding myself more and more anxious and having panic attacks for no good reason. And then this happens and just seems to exacerbate my symptoms.

For 14 year I’ve managed a group that shares information for a specific group of people. I’ve never had any issues other than the expected disagreements and what not. I recently had a falling out with an extended family member and blocked them therefore limited what they can see in the group. They just can’t see my posts. She calls me out on MY page and proceeds to create another group that’s basically the same as mine but I can’t see her posts. It’s childish right?

Do I unblock her so she can see all posts? Keep in mind she always knows what’s going on regardless because she has friends and family in the group as well. I feel hurt and picked on.

I don’t think it’s right to act that way?

I love all you guys and your input. It really helps me.

[blackcat64013]

Hi,

Thank you for your post. It's so tough when you have a falling out with someone close to you. Can you send her a private message to tell her how you feel and level of anxiety you are feeling? Try to be your authentic self and don't be afraid to ask for what you need. You are worth it.

🦘

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I would see a doctor and maybe an Optometrist about your headaches.Like Blackcat64013 says, I would just tell her how you feel and be honest with them.

[MetallicGradient]

Depending on how serious the falling out was, I agree with @blackcat64013 but I would also add that it would be a good idea to listen what the other party says as well, just so the incident can become water under the bridge for both of you.

[Mrspjsmom]

Get checked out for your headaches. They could be caused by any number of different things. It's up to you whether or not you want to unblock your extended family member. She is acting childish and being cruel. Perhaps it's time for her to manage the group. I say this as someone who needed to unfriend and block my own sister after years of verbal abuse both in person and on social media. My life is much more peaceful now and she had to find a new target.