Trigger

I am trying my best to not let this get to me, but it’s hard. A security guard at my job passed by to say hello, but he’s wearing a cologne that my abuser wore. I was about 12 years old when I was sexually assaulted by this particular person. I don’t ever think about it, but when I smell that cologne, I get flashbacks. I’m trying so hard to keep it together.

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Thank you so much. Unfortunately, this was one of many that happened to me, but I know that I’m safe and he and the others can no longer hurt me. I appreciate the support. Thankfully, two of my coworkers unknowingly, made me feel better by making me laugh. Much love ❤️

[Midori]

Oh that's unfortunate. but I know what you mean. The sense of smell is the one that links directly to our memories.

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Most definitely… it sucks big time.

[Itzallgood1]

Maybe a chat with management saying there's a trigger with you. Maybe have different security wall that post. I'm not sure what you're work site is like as far as how many security guards work there. There has to be a solution to this otherwise you could live this over and over again. Sorry about your past.

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There’s not much they’ll be able to do about that. I’ll figure something out 🤔

[Itzallgood1 in reply to Hidden]

Sorry I couldn't help

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You guys have helped more than you know. Just hearing me out and responding helped a ton.

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🌻🌻🌻

[Blueruth]

That’s exactly why they say not to wear anything scented at work. It is also because of allergies. Some places have rules about it. Sorry you are going through this.

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My thoughts exactly. Thanks btw