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I had to put my cat to sleep

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He fell and he couldn’t move they said he had a brain tumor. This was my first pet it was so hard for me. I got him cremated. I will get a nose his paw print a nice wood box that says Bob that’s his name and a piece of his hair. He was 13 years ago. He was a stray when we got him.

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Agora1

I'm so sorry to hear that Cutiey75. What a nice remembrance you will have of him knowing

that because of you, he had a good life. :) xx

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Cutiey75 in reply toAgora1

Hello , thank you for saying that. Take care of yourself. We all go through this.

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Attacks_begone

I am new as I just joined today your post is the very 1st one I saw. I am very sorry for your loss

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Cutiey75 in reply toAttacks_begone

Hi, thank you so much. Take care. We all know how it feels.

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Roxylox

I am so sorry, losing a pet is so heartbreaking

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Cutiey75 in reply toRoxylox

Hi, thank you. We all go through this. Take care

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Midori

Sorry you have lost a beloved cat; They do become family so quickly, don't they?

I hope you can get another fairly quickly, which will help a little with your grief.

Cheers, Midori

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Cutiey75 in reply toMidori

Hello, Thank you so much. It’s tough for everyone.

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CatsamazeADAA Volunteer

Hi Cutiey. I had to make the same decision last November and I have never cried so long and so hard. It seemed that I wouldn’t be able to stop. I can smile when I think of him now. But I miss him. I am so sorry you lost a member of the family. I said “lost” but that’s not really accurate because he will always be with you….

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Cutiey75 in reply toCatsamaze

Hi, Im sorry you had to go through the same thing. Thank you. Take care of yourself.

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CatsamazeADAA Volunteer in reply toCutiey75

You too. It will take a while but eventually it won’t hurt this bad.

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AnimalLover21

Hi, so sorry for the loss of your beautiful cat. It’s very hard when we loss our pets to say goodbye. Coming from experience I totally understand. I was in a similar situation last year. It’s hard but please take comfort for all your happy wonderful memories & the home your cat had. The Blue Cross animal charity have a Pet Bereavement helpline 7 days a weeks to speak to trained Qualified person whom has suffered the loss of there beloved pet/S . It really does help. Take care of yourself lisa x

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Cutiey75 in reply toAnimalLover21

Hello, thank you. I’m sorry we both had to go through this. Thanks for the information. take care of yourself.

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Mrspjsmom

I'm so sorry. It's devastating to lose a cherished pet. Take time to mourn. When your heart is ready perhaps a new stray will come into your life. That happened to me. I'm adding a photo. My best friend bought this for me when one of my cats passed away. It's supposed to be for the yard but I keep it inside next to the back door. His favorite place to lay down and watch the outside world. HUGS!!!

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Cutiey75 in reply toMrspjsmom

Hi, thank you so much. So sorry this happened to both of us. That is a nice reminder of your cat. Take care of yourself

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Mrspjsmom in reply toCutiey75

Thankd. You too.

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Arymretep

Sorry to hear about Bob, we’ve had numerous pets and each time we lose one we say never again as we can’t bare losing them , think of all the wonderful times you had together and the good life he had with you, 🐱🐾

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Cutiey75 in reply toArymretep

Hi, thank you. I’m sorry we both went through this. I will think of a good times. take care of yourself

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Arymretep in reply toCutiey75

Bob will always be in your heart, we kept all ours ashes too and they are all together in our rose garden with a little plaque of rememberance. , take care

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Cutiey75

Hello, thank you. I’m sorry we both had to go through the same thing. Thanks for the information. Take care of yourself.

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designguy

Sorry to read of your loss. I think the loss of a pet and their unconditional love for us is one of the hardest experiences as humans. It ultimately makes us stronger but is so hard to go through. My best to you and be kind and loving with yourself and allow yourself to grieve.

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Cutiey75 in reply todesignguy

Hi, Thank you so much for sharing that. You take care too.

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mvillarreal

I'm so sorry for your loss, Cutiey75 . Losing an animal companion is so hard. It can feel like losing a family member even. I hope you're okay and hope you can care well for yourself during your journey of grief.

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Cutiey75 in reply tomvillarreal

Hi, thank you so much for saying that. Take care

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covidZ

Much Love to You .and your KittyCat

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