My life

[blackman79]

This is a story for my good friend. Tell me about it and I want to share it with you. , my friend says, “I am currently over thirty. My life before reaching the age of 25 was like an angel despite my miserable psychological state at that time. But I was the owner of a pure heart like children. Until I discovered that bad habit (masturbation) at the age of twenty-five. My life turned upside down. I was addicted to it until now. And my conscience reprimands me after I do it. Even after marriage. Is there a solution and is this a normal thing or not. I feel like I'm cheating on my wife when I do it

[Hidden]

I wish I could help but I could only give my point of view - I think your friend has not felt good for a while possibly and masturbation let’s face it - it feels good and our body wants to feel this more when other things don’t feel as good. I would assume most people do it when they aren’t as happy and aren’t as busy in their lives they have more time to do it. Then it becomes a bad habit. Yes pleasing oneself is not necessarily wrong but there’s other pleasures in life we can choose to do such as working out or skating or cooking and enjoying meals. Maybe this is a bad comparison but that’s how I see it

[san_ray70 in reply to Hidden]

Are you going to tell your wife, why, what she does not know won't hurt her. If you still have an active sex life, make the most of it. My husband loves me but he needs pills to make love. I caught him looking at female bodies the other day, on the computer, he is 70 but I suppose it is a healthy outlet.