My life: I got messages out of nowhere... - Anxiety and Depre...

Anxiety and Depression Support

92,989 members86,851 posts

My life

mhunnell19 profile image
14 Replies

I got messages out of nowhere from this girl who is dating my ex’s brother. She accused me of faking my pregnancy saying I could “Lie about it until I die but everyone knows I faked it” and all this stuff. I tried to get her to leave me alone but she just wouldn’t. Even went as far as to say my ex insulted my body. It just hurts, especially that she’s insulting the life I lost

Written by
mhunnell19 profile image
mhunnell19
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
14 Replies

Hey there, I just read some of your posts & just wanted to let you know you're not alone. I lost my baby at 15 weeks & 3 days in February of this year.

It's something that haunts me every single night & I wish you peace about your baby.

I wouldn't even allow these people to talk to you anymore. I would cut them all out of your life, social media, everything & if they keep harassing you... I would report them however you need to.

My long term boyfriend pushed me out of a moving vehicle while I was pregnant & a lot of our mutual friends have only heard his side of the story & they think that I opened the door myself.

Instead of dealing with the harassment, I've blocked all of them & if they message me - I report them to the authorities. I'm in therapy now & trying to get through everything that has happened. It's not easy, & it's a pain I wouldn't wish on anyone, but you can get through this. I promise.

If you ever want to talk, feel free to pm. If I get what anyone is going through, this is something I can relate to. <3

gogogirl profile image
gogogirl in reply to

Oh my!!!! Someone did that- I hope this person went to jail. I am so sorry- words are not enough. You are very brave to come to this site. Keep coming.

in reply togogogirl

Thank you so much. 🖤

gogogirl profile image
gogogirl in reply to

Good to hear from you, and thanks for your reply.

in reply to

Yes please keep coming here to vent...it's a very safe place with a lot of love. I am so deeply sorry for your loss.....try to stay as strong as you can. I'm sure that is very difficult right now...you have done the right thing by getting them all out of your life. Love & Hugs!!! XXX

in reply to

Thank you so much. It’s a struggle everyday trying to get through this pain. I tried to end my life a few months ago & I’m just now getting back in the real world. It’s like I’m just now trying to deal with it in a healthier way & im trying really hard. Thank you for all your encouragement. I appreciate you so much. <3

in reply to

It's my pleasure to try to help you! I can't even imagine what it must be like for you. I'll always be here for you. Love & hugs! XXX

She is of very little concern to you! She’s far-removed from your present life. Forget about it, literally, and keep pushing forward! You got this!

gogogirl profile image
gogogirl

I don't know what kind of person would do this, but I would not respond. Sounds like this is a sick jerk would just wants attention.

gogogirl profile image
gogogirl in reply togogogirl

If it keeps happening, I also would report it to the police.

Get rid of them as soon as possible! I wish for you peace! Love & Hugs..XXX

mhunnell19 profile image
mhunnell19 in reply to

Thank you!

in reply tomhunnell19

My pleasure!!! XXX

mhunnell19 profile image
mhunnell19

Thanks Everyone! It’s just been really hard lately. I thought it was over but as I said this girl popped out of nowhere. I miscarried back in March and I know I should just be satisfied knowing myself that I had a child but it still hurts a lot. Especially when I feel that they are trying to take being able to mourn away from me

Not what you're looking for?

You may also like...

My sister saved my life again.

My gf left me last week. In the middle of quarantine. We'd been staying at my place quarantined...
DML124 profile image

Story of my life

Hi im nik...I have social anxiety from when I was a child until now...im very bad at...
nick933 profile image

Hate my life

I really don,t know what to do any more. I walked out of my job nearly 3 years ago after watching...

My life up to this point...

Last night I had a dream where I was in some kind of building I've never been to before and there i...

Hating my life!!

My dad knows I have pure OCD and that it’s been years I’m on meds. However, he doesn’t still...
Luna-blade profile image

Moderation team

Content on HealthUnlocked does not replace the relationship between you and doctors or other healthcare professionals nor the advice you receive from them.

Never delay seeking advice or dialling emergency services because of something that you have read on HealthUnlocked.