need advice

have a dear freind that truly suffers from medical conditions.....chronic and prob unrelenting.....cant image......prob thinks shed be a burden or no one would want her.....but that's not me ....i genuinely respect and care for her........but don't want to intrude either..........wish I knew how to help and let her know she not alone in the world or dealing this medical condition......all so unfair and people have been just cruel to her.........she must be so brave to will herself through all this.......i really don't know what to do or say............she helps others and is very kind and giving...........wish I knew how to make her feel better......its terrible she has to deal with this.

[Hidden]

Sometimes there isn’t much more you can do than just be a friend. One friend can undo a lot of bad.

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

appreicate it very much.....not personal but....complements to your kind tone.....no wonder u have cats.......tk u .......it breaks your heart....as u well know..........

[Dolphin14]

I agree with Catgirl. Support your friend. You can't make the pain go away but I'm sure she appreciates you caring about her.

❤️🐬

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please dont thinjk i dont apprecxiate your time and sharing/insights....i do........i cant actually talk to my horses.....only guess.....and like many of u...have seen so many linger forever....and know its real......most women just go away and suffer in silence except for a few v vver yclose friends........breaks your heart to see what people go through......and how loyal some ....women are and their secret or private network that help them or come into the hospitals.......the women read each other on a whole order of magntifutde differently..........in an instant.......they know ......

e we all have been in the clinical pits.....we know what light and flowers and thorughrtful gestures....and not being alone can do.......none of u would ever drop anyone and yet there are families.......incomprehensible............i don't know her address and don't want to intrude......maybe ask the church to pray for her...or plant some flowers on the farm for her..............we all know what chronic pain does.....and inflammatory products............not to sound clinical but...............how to block and bypass all that........(sure she knows all that) ..... what some have to endure.....as u all know........or speaking to the choir

i do thank u......in all honesty ...i really really really do......

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

sometimes i lack the words to say thank u............

[Dolphin14 in reply to Hidden]

Yes some people choose to suffer in silence. I thought she was a close friend that you could just message and let her k ow you are there for her.

[Midori]

Just be there for her when she needs support.

[Hidden in reply to Midori]

hear u thanks

[Hidden]

not all women eat men automatically alive

some......are kind enough and have good enough ear.....they share their insights....

we know most women have a emotional radar iq that fill the room.....seen it a miilon times......feel it......

nice when they know ur trying.........

5 seconds with my family

and they would never have a self esteem issue

ever

again........