Hello everyone. Might need a little help or positive vibes.

[BrianER]

So I might be thinking too much into this. But I'm a contractor so when I leave town for work my gf is always hanging out with her friend s and family. When I'm home. She usually just wants it to be me and her and not hang out with them. Makes me feel like she's embossed of me. Or her friends and family don't like me. And since I have adhd and bipolar and all that crap it just makes me think worse and worse and worse and I kinda spiral... not sure hot to approach it.

[Tigerlilly7]

Hi How you today?

I would guess that when she has the chance to spend time with you that’s what she’s doing so just wants to spend time with you. I wouldn’t worry if anything it’s a compliment.

[hypercat54]

I agree with Tigerlilly as I thought the same when I read your post. If it bothers you though you could always ask her or do it sideways and make a little joke about it. See what she says.

[SirGrits]

Hey Brian, I agree with the idea that she prolly wants to maximize her time with you when you're around. But it clearly is occupying at least a little part of your mind. My recommendation is to ask her straight up. But don't phrase like "are you ashamed of me?", phrase it like "why don't we ever hang out with your friends? I'd like to get to know them better". I assume you're wanting to get in with her on a deeper level, so express that you'd like to mend things between you and "her people" even if it's in small doses. Could be a little rough, it'll definitely be plenty awkward. But methinks you love her. "Her people" lover her too. Just keep that at the top of you mind and lead with it.Prayers bro.