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My dog is getting to the point where I don't know if I should euthanize him or not and I'm having a hard time making the decision. Any suggestions on some place to contact so I can discuss his situation and get some advice?

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hypercat54 profile image
hypercat54

I am so sorry to hear your beloved dog is so ill. I think the best person to ask is the vet. I would ask whether he is in any pain or distress. I would also ask whether any further treatment could help him and could it be worth it.

Based on the vets advice and your own knowledge of your pet you can then make your decision. It's heart breaking and I have been there to a few times. Hugs xxx

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Pugglesworth

I agree with hypercat.

Talk to your vet.

If the dog still has quality of life (enjoys walks, eating, being pet) then that would also enter into my decision.

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Itzallgood1

Then vet is best option.

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Cpht

I agree with both hyper cat and pugglesworth, talking to your vet about your concerns gives you your best insight to find out if your dog is in pain/suffering, but also, no one knows your beloved buddy better then you, his pet parent. Having fur kids of my own for many years I can only offer you advice on what I have done in this situation- I have my pet examined and discuss any questions/concerns on their current quality of life. Are they hurting and if so can the pain still be controlled/managed enough that they can still enjoy being here- whether that means going for walks or just being able to enjoy cuddling on the couch with me. Are they still able to eat and drink? Are they still having more good days then bad days? Then I talk to my pet, and ask them heart to heart what they want because ultimately they are dependent on us to do what is best for them especially when means it might be time to say goodbye (for now, I do hope to see them again one day at rainbow bridge). I have always been able to decide for sure by looking in their eyes and asking them. He will let you know without doubt when it is time. You’ll know the answer in your heart. (I’ve currently got a 16 year old dachshund who I adore more then anything in life, who is beginning to show signs of getting closer herself so I can absolutely sympathize with what you are going through right now…)

I trust in her to let me know, and she trusts in me to listen to her wishes. Much love to you with this difficult decision❤️

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Midori

I agree with everyone, take some advice from your vet.

It's a tough decision to make, balancing the best interests of your furfriend, against your thoughts of loss of their personalty and companionship.

If you think they are no longer enjoying life, in pain, then it is probably better to let them go with love. Please don't abandon them at the end, as they will feel fear and abandonment. Stay with them until it is over.

Cheers, Midori

in the states- many universities have such call in lines.....tough decision....but my experience and bias.............i preserve their dignity and make sure they are extremely comfortable.....but I help them out of pain and suffering as a vet. However...i want to make sure they and their loved ones are ready...........its an act of love and mercy. Many sides to the issue and find someone to discuss it with. Doc

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Jim18255

Thanks to all who replied with helpful advice. I've made an appointment with my vet to take a look at Brodie and get his opinion on whether Brodie is suffering or not having a decent quality of life. Based on that, I'll make the decision as to what to do.

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Samson1953 in reply to Jim18255

I'm praying for Brodie. Hope he can hang in there. 🤗

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Samson1953

try to keep your doggie alive with you as much as you can. maube the vet can give you pain meds for him or anything that will make him be comfortable. sometimes Vets suggest to put them down but try to do everything you can to help yr doggie.

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Jim18255 in reply to Samson1953

I certainly intend to do all I can to keep Brodie as long as he's not suffering. I've had dogs all my life and I've cried every time one died or had to be put down. I get misty just thinking that the vet may have bad news. I'll hope for the best, even if it's only a few more months.

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