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Hospices time of life.

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Well I made the decision to start hospices. It started yesterday. They came in fast, so I can be comfortable with in my own skin. It's been overwhelmed with the reality of the truth with the family. I'm comfortable, not feeling I'm going 1000 miles in my thoughts and feelings, body. Been able to watch my husband with tractor remove dead trees. Make the most of time left. Kinda feeling releft.

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RIO-heart

Bless you I know this was hard for you. My Mom was on hospice for a year.They made such a big difference for her. They are kind and caring and were with her to the end.Spend your time enjoying your family and the beauty of an ordinary day🙏🙏🙏

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Fruitsofspirit in reply to RIO-heart

I use to be a hospices care type person. To many over the years. Made wish come true and love them. Spend a lot of time with laughing and crying. I love it. Thank you.

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I know you are and very grateful. This journey is new but knew it would come. I think right now I'm numb. I'm not in pain and fighting to breathe. Or with the emotional mentally hurt and pain of the grandkids. I'm going to make the best with my time and family. Love, Peace, Laughter, Joy. But most of anything continue growing close to the Lord. No one needs to say anything just be here. Thank you.

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Agora1

This is your time now to have someone take care of you as you did for others.

You are in the best of hands with your hospice care team. I wish you peace of heart

and mind dear friend. My hand is held out to you if you need to talk. We are right

here by your side. You are not alone. :) xx

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Fruitsofspirit in reply to Agora1

I'm counting on you all and I will be here for each of you.

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With love :) xx

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Thank you for your caring heart.

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U don't need to say anything. Just being is great

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And I for u my friend.

Hi, I hope you are okay. Glad you reached out to us on here.🙂

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I numb trying to take it all in. But I am at peace. I've been working hard to breathe and to just get to rest room. Everything was taken a toll on me emotionally, mentally, physically but most of all spiritually.

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I'm praying you will get through this. Sounds really rough.

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YES getting ready to do my encountering peace meditation and then sleep. Are you doing ok

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Fruitsofspirit

CA

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Fruitsofspirit

What u scare of hon

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Well talk tomorrow. Nite. My the Lord cover u from all that is fear and scarring u. Give u peace to rest. Amen

Hi there. Listen, she's going through a lot. She can't help you. Stop bothering her.

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Yes.

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Well said!

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I'm here for her when I can. Today was busy with getting everything done on hospice. Thank you for caring. Sending hugs

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You too.💖 Feel free to send me a personal message if you want to.

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How are you doing? Me just overwhelmed. But they took a lot of neb meds away now take 1 with dual action. Change my anxiety med to works faster and longer, better. I already feeling less working to breathe. Hope your day goes good ❤️.

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I have issues with severe depression and anxiety, I recently just had my 2nd Covid vaccine shot. It threw me for a loop the first 2 days after it, I was very tired and my nerves were shot, so to speak. That was this past Monday. Now today I'm just taking it easy. I'm going to shower soon. That vaccine didn't bother me too much on the first shot, but the 2nd is intense.

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2nd did the same to me for 3 days but all good now. 1at one the next day arm hurt 5min and nothing else

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No u haven't sorry just now getting in. Very busy day with the hospices. How are you doing today? 💖. When things settle down u and I can talk. Sending hugs 🤗

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Fruitsofspirit

I usely sleep good. But if I can't I will call on u. Good night. Praying u'll be able to sleep all night 💤

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Fruitsofspirit

How u doing? 🌞

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Bella I welcome to.

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She is one of the baby snowball is her name

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Do u mind me asking where you live?

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How old is she? My husband line all ours spoon feeds them then wonder why he hungry. 😂 Quote feeding the dogs all ur food. Try u eating it. lol

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So happy to hear. How u doing?

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